For most of my life, I loved being the one cheering everyone else on. I’d send encouraging texts, celebrate people’s wins, and show up like their biggest hype girl. But deep down, I was craving that same kind of cheerleader. Someone to notice me, to tell me I was doing a good job. And if I’m being honest, that need for validation caused tension in my marriage, exhaustion in my hustle, and an emptiness I couldn’t shake. Everything changed the day a mentor looked me straight in the eyes and sai...
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For most of my life, I loved being the one cheering everyone else on. I’d send encouraging texts, celebrate people’s wins, and show up like their biggest hype girl. But deep down, I was craving that same kind of cheerleader. Someone to notice me, to tell me I was doing a good job. And if I’m being honest, that need for validation caused tension in my marriage, exhaustion in my hustle, and an emptiness I couldn’t shake. Everything changed the day a mentor looked me straight in the eyes and sai...
Ever feel like your own thoughts are working against you? Yeah, me too. In this episode, I’m sharing how one book—Change Your Brain, Change Your Life by Dr. Daniel Amen—sparked my obsession with understanding the brain and finally gave me language for something I had battled for years: Automatic Negative Thoughts, or what Dr. Amen calls ANTs. You’ll hear about the six most common ANTs, how they show up in my everyday life (like assuming a ruined pie ruined Thanksgiving 😅), and how I...
Not Anymore!
For most of my life, I loved being the one cheering everyone else on. I’d send encouraging texts, celebrate people’s wins, and show up like their biggest hype girl. But deep down, I was craving that same kind of cheerleader. Someone to notice me, to tell me I was doing a good job. And if I’m being honest, that need for validation caused tension in my marriage, exhaustion in my hustle, and an emptiness I couldn’t shake. Everything changed the day a mentor looked me straight in the eyes and sai...