In this episode we finally circle back to a topic we mentioned a while ago, and one that a few listeners have actually requested. We talk about how we can’t help but wonder if the insane tantrums we catch from our toddlers, tantrums other people report seem to be solely reserved for us, are reflective of the fact that we are their safe spaces, or if we are fueling their fires. There is no easy resolve or concise lesson in this one, just two moms wondering if we're doing the right thing in making so much space for the big emotions of our little ones. We have a feeling some of you can relate!