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It's an interview episode! Haven't had one of these in a while, so you know it's a good one <3
In this episode, I'm chatting with my friend, collaborator, and top-tier copywriter, Kaili Meyer of Reveal Studio Co. We are 2 spicy chicas that are always talking about boundaries: why you need to set them, how to enforce them, and lately, what exactly to say to make sure you don't come off "like a b*tch." Like Kaili always says, the only people who are going to think you are being a b*tch for enforcing your boundaries are the people who benefit from you having none.
Talking points:
* why it might not be someone's fault for violating your boundaries (cuz ya never told them)
* the importance of communicating your boundaries (bc they are not one-size-fits-all)
* how to make sure that you are being paid for your content or discovery calls etc. (& how to educate the person asking why you have this policy)
* why you don't need to be "aggressive" or "cold" to communicate your policies (you can be a nice human when saying "no")
* the importance of contracts (& that they accurately reflect your policies to back you up)
* how to make sure people actually read your contracts (so they are informed of your boundaries)
* when to be "nicer" & let things slide (versus when it's actually impressive to see someone stand their ground)
* what exactly to say when you need to stand your ground (& why you should create scripts before your emotions get involved)
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MONEY & FINANCE BOUNDARIES:
> “Your payment is overdue”Â
> “Your payment is overdue and you ignored my last reminder”
> "I don't offer discounts"
> "Here's why my call costs money"
> "I don't speak for exposure"
> "No, you can't get a refund"
> "Dude, you can't just ask your bank for a refund or submit a fraudulent chargeback"
> "I don't owe you free stuff"
TIME & EXPECTATION BOUNDARIES:
> “Your contract is about to expire”
> “Your contract already expired”
> “This goes beyond what you hired me to do"
> “I’m a contractor, not an employee… know the difference"
> “You’re disrespecting my communication boundaries”
> “I think we need to end our relationship”
> “You cannot seriously keep rescheduling”
> “Why do you keep missing deadlines?”
> "How hard is it for you to do your job?"
ENERGY & RESPECT BOUNDARIES:
> “Why did you ghost me?"
> “Why did you inquire and then never reply?"
> “That's not a 'quick question'"
> “I was just doing you a favor..."
> "I already told you this"
> "Your emergency is not my priority"
OTHER BOUNDARIES:
> “We're not a good fit"
> “Um... stop copying my [free] content"
> “Um... stop copying my [paid] content"
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PS ... don't forget to follow Kaili on Instagram <3