Are you tired of waiting for a man to finally choose you — only to end up disappointed, confused, or questioning your worth? In this episode, we’re talking about the “pick me” dynamic — when your mood, self-worth, and even your future plans hinge on whether someone else finally commits. We’ll unpack why you keep attracting emotionally unavailable men, why you confuse mixed signals with love, and how your past wounds can make crumbs feel like a feast. You’ll learn: The truth about the “pick me” pattern Why he hasn’t chosen you (and why it’s not your fault) The trauma patterns behind chasing unavailable men How father wounds and early abandonment shape your attraction One step to start reclaiming your power today If you’ve been asking, “Why won’t he choose me?”, “Why do I keep attracting unavailable men?”, or “Why am I drawn to hot and cold relationships?” — this is your wake-up call. God’s love is steady, consistent, and never withholding — and that’s the kind of love you’re worthy of. 👉 Ready to heal at the root, rewire your nervous system, and stop settling? Join us inside The Healing Room — where we break these patterns for good. Tags / Keywords why won’t he choose me, why am I attracted to emotionally unavailable men, why do I keep attracting unavailable men, why I keep attracting toxic people, why won’t he commit, why I keep attracting narcissists, dating advice for women, healing father wounds, stop attracting unavailable men, break trauma bonds, how to attract healthy love, self-worth healing, christian dating podcast, nervous system healing, healing love addiction