In this episode, Samar and Ash read an email from a foreign man dating a Japanese woman — and he’s spiraling. She’s ordering for him. Speaking for him. Stepping in before he even gets to say “kore kudasai.” He’s worried he’s becoming that foreign guy in Japan — you know the one. Been here for years. Can’t speak a full sentence. Just vibes and shrugs his way through life. We unpack what it means to be in a relationship in Japan when your partner is a little too helpful. How do you stay independent when you can speak Japanese (kind of), but your partner keeps jumping in? When is it okay to rely on them — and when does it start to stunt your growth? Have a problem? We need stories! Become a part of the No Ginger community by emailing us your “shouganai” story at: nogingerpodcast@gmail.com Or if you prefer DM's, find us on Instagram or Tiktok and share your story. Thank you for your support. If you enjoyed this episode, don't forget to rate and subscribe. As always, stay genki :)