When the man who invented the light bulb was asked how it felt to fail so many times, he responded, " I didn't fail; I found 999 ways it won't work"! In the same way, for some, the journey to finding love might feel like navigating countless "won't works". This podcast sheds light on what love is not, offering clarity for those still searching. For those who have found love, it will help you protect what you've built.

I hope you, my dearest listeners, find the sweet essence of this podcast and enjoy savoring every moment!

HAPPY LISTENING!

P.S Apologies for the quirky sound around my voice! I hope to address it in the following episodes.

Luke 14:28, No one should set out on a project without calculating the cost. At every point, one must be able to weigh the cost of their decisions and ensure it is the right step in the right direction. Being in the talking stage has so much to do with determining whether a person is right for you or not. It’s a step away from defining a relationship and a step towards getting into a relationship…or not. This episode sheds light on what the talking stage is all about and what we should and shouldn’t do in at the talking stage. Gift and I also share our opinions on how long a talking stage should go. Do take a listen 🎧

NEWLY EDITED ( formerly published on the 3rd of July 2022) “Let your moderation be known to all men...”Phil 4:8. Friendships are to be preserved and moderation will help you sustain a good friendship, This episode highlights some of the mistakes we make all in the name of “bestie benefits” and how we can best avoid awkward situations. Enjoy!

Proverbs 16:24 “ pleasant words are like a honey comb, sweet and delightful to the soul and healing to the body”. This edition features a dear friend; Oseme, a brilliant lady who co hosts admirably. The girl friend’s edition is like a girls “gist” episode and in this edition, we talk about getting over a breakup and as you will get to find out when you listen, there is no way getting over a breakup can be fast! It’s a process and going though it isn’t the end of the world, it’s a phase that will pass. We discuss on some helpful ways you can go through a breakup without loosing yourself entirely in the process.

Colossians 4:5 “Act wisely towards others…”. Apologies can be of no use if it isn’t said in the right manner. People differ as well as their mode of communication. This isn’t a regular topic but it’s important to build and sustain a relationship. Apology language might as well be referred to as the “rejected stone” and you know what they say about the rejected stone. This episode explains Apology language from two perspectives.

Childhood has so much effect on adulthood, enmeshed relationships is an effect of a defect in the childhood of an individual.

Ecclesiastes 3:1 “For everything there is a season, A time for every activity under heaven.” How do you know you are ready for a relationship? What are the things to look in for? What are the things to look out for? Green Flags and yellow lights for relationships is a talk about some of the things you have to be conscious of before getting in a relationship.

Philippians 1:10 says we should let our moderation be known to all men, another part of scriptures says all things are lawful BUT not all things are expedient. This podcast exposes some excesses you may find in intending relationships or actual relationships that are possible red flags, how to prevent and handle them.

Gratitude 🙏🏽

First of it’s kind: #TGIAND affirmation series• Thank God it’s Saturday!

First of it’s kind: #TGIAND affirmation series• Thank God it’s Friday!

First of it’s kind: #TGIAND affirmation series• Thank God it’s Thursday!

First of it’s kind: #TGIAND affirmation series• Thank God it’s Tuesday!

First of it’s kind #TGIAND Thank God It’s a New Day Affirmation Series on Nessa Talks

First of it’s Kind! #TGIAND: Thank God it’s A New Day affirmations series on Nessa talks

With the emergence of different social media platforms, the occurrence of unpleasant situations such as bread-crumbing may be inevitable so here are signs to know you are being bread-crumbed and how to deal with it.

“The purposes of a person’s heart are deep waters, but one who has insight draws them out” (Proverbs 20:5) Have you been in a situation where you cannot tell if you are in a relationship with a person or not? Do you find yourself holding on to someone and the person doesn’t seem to reciprocate? Do you find yourself frequently getting confused about a persons behavior towards you and you find yourself doubting what you both share? Do you feel you are in a one sided relationship and don’t know what to do cause it feels awkward? Well you most likely haven’t defined your relationship. Most often than not, young people find themselves entangled in what we tag as “situationships” and sometimes get hurt at the end of the day. Defining a relationship is one of the ways to avoid misunderstandings such as have been mentioned and to clear doubts when relating with the opposite sex. This podcast explains what DTR is and why it’s important.