In this episode, we unpack the shift from always putting others first to embracing a little “villain era” energy—choosing ourselves unapologetically. From compromise and confidence to self-respect and decision-making, we explore what it really means to set boundaries. Plus, we lighten the conversation with a dive into cartoon villains and the lessons they teach us.

Episode Timestamps

• 00:00 – Self-Prioritization vs. Selflessness
• 02:53 – Compromise in Relationships
• 06:10 – Navigating Social Expectations
• 08:52 – The Balance of Self-Respect
• 11:55 – Understanding Personal Choices
• 15:03 – The Impact of Confidence
• 18:00 – Finding Balance in Relationships
• 20:55 – Making Decisions for Yourself
• 24:02 – Cartoon Villains

Key Takeaways

• Selflessness can easily turn into self-neglect without healthy boundaries.
• Compromise in relationships should never come at the cost of self-respect.
• Confidence is a game-changer in how we make choices for ourselves.
• It’s okay to prioritize your own needs—choosing yourself doesn’t make you the villain.
• Even cartoon villains can show us the power of owning who you are.