Feeling like your relationship or marriage is an uphill battle? You're not alone. In this episode of My Growth Club, we reveal that it might not be as "hard" as you think—you might just be missing the right tools. Join Emmanuel and Grace as they break down the 5 simple but powerful tools that can transform your partnership from a source of stress into a source of strength. Learn how to stop fighting against each other and start building a beautiful life together. Whether you're dating, engaged, or have been married for years, this conversation will give you the practical wisdom you need to thrive. IN THIS VIDEO, YOU'LL DISCOVER: The powerful "lifting a car" analogy that will change how you see relationship challenges. • Tool #1: Wisdom - How to build a strong foundation for your relationship.• Tool #2: Understanding & Knowledge - The importance of learning about human nature and each other.• Tool #3: Empathy & Humility - The secret to seeing from your partner's perspective and serving them well.• Tool #4: Effective Communication - Why just "talking" isn't enough and how to truly connect.• Tool #5: Shared Purpose - The ultimate driving force that makes every struggle worth it. ✨ GET OUR TOOLS FOR EFFECTIVE LIVING: The Effective Living Journal & Notion System: https://www.mygrowthclub.org LET'S CONNECT:What's the #1 tool you're going to start using in your relationship? Let us know in the COMMENTS below! And if this conversation helped you, please LIKE the video and SUBSCRIBE for more episodes! CHAPTERS:0:00 - Is Marriage Supposed to Be This Hard?2:48 - The "Lifting a Car" Analogy for Relationships5:15 - Tool 1: Wisdom (The Ultimate Toolbox)9:03 - Tool 2: The Power of Understanding & Knowledge14:40 - Tool 3: Why Empathy & Humility are Non-Negotiable19:12 - Tool 4: Stop Talking, Start Communicating25:55 - Tool 5: Purpose - The Reason That Makes Pain Worth It32:10 - Final Thoughts on Building a Great Partnership #RelationshipAdvice #Marriage #CommunicationSkills #HealthyRelationships #ChristianMarriage

Welcome to the Growth Club! In this episode, Emmanuel and Grace discuss life, its challenges, and how to find balance when life gets overwhelming. We share personal experiences and delve into topics like navigating life's tough moments, defining success, and the key to living a better life with our effective living model, focusing on love, essentials, non-essentials, relationships, wealth, health, work, and impact. Discover the importance of a growth mindset and wisdom for achieving balance. If you're looking for guidance and inspiration on your journey, you're in the right place! Subscribe to our channel for more insightful discussions.Visit www.mygrowthclub.org for our effective living model, journal and systems.

Welcome to My Growth Club! Today on My Growth Club, Emmanuel and Grace discuss why you feel stuck and how to turn things around—whether in relationships, careers, or just generally. We dive into the importance of being radically honest with yourself about what you truly want and why. The conversation explores how our choices and lack of self-honesty can lead to feeling stuck. We discuss understanding how things really work in the world, including relationships and personal growth, and not just relying on our preconceived notions. Plus, we emphasize learning to forgive ourselves for past decisions and acknowledging that we don't always have all the answers. Key topics include:• Being honest with yourself about your desires.• Recognizing the role of past choices in your current situation.• Understanding how reality works, not how you want it to.• Learning about human behavior.• The importance of forgiveness and gratitude.• The power of planning and setting goals.• Focusing on small wins and recognizing personal growth.

Ever feel like you're constantly trying to please everyone else, but forgetting what you actually want? Yeah, we've been there too. In this episode, Emmanuel and Grace are talking about something super important: escaping the people-pleasing trap! We all know how it goes – society, family, friends, they all have expectations. But what happens when those expectations start running your life? We’re keeping it real and honest, just like we always do! We want you to walk away from this feeling empowered to make decisions that are right for you. Resources Mentioned: Visit www.mygrowthclub.org   We’d Love to Hear From You!Subscribe ❤️ to join our growing family, and let’s journey together. New episodes drop weekly, brimming with real talk and practical wisdom for your relationships. Comment, like, and share this video with someone who’d benefit! Thanks for tuning in—let’s make today a step toward a brighter tomorrow. #PeoplePleasing #effectiveliving #personaldevelopment #RealTalk #EscapeTheTrap #PersonalDevelopment

Welcome to My Growth Club! In this episode, Emmanuel and Grace check in on the first quarter of 2025 and discuss the importance of priorities, principles, and tracking your progress in the areas that matter most to you. Learn how to keep yourself on track, identify areas for growth, and create a fulfilling life. If you're committed to growth and effective living, you'll love this episode. Resources MentionedThese tools can help you put what you’ve learned into practice: • Effective Living Journal: Grab your copy on Amazon. It’s perfect for reflecting and tracking your progress. • Effective Living Notion System: Streamline your life with this template on Notion. It’s a game-changer for staying organized! • Effective Living Family Notion System: Organize family life with ease at Notion. Keep everyone on the same page. Our Gift to YouWe’ve got something special for you: Family/Friends 365 Bible Study: Get your free copy at "https://www.notion.com/templates/family-friends-365-days-bible-study". It’s a year-long journey you can share with loved ones. ️ More Notion Templates: Explore additional resources at "https://www.notion.com/@mygrowthclub". There’s something here for everyone! Come Grow With Us!Join the My Growth Club community and connect with others on the same journey. Sign up at "https://nkemmanuel.notion.site/16e4f941d6ae80f789d6ca7bfb47e6b8". We’d love to grow with you! We’d Love to Hear From You!Subscribe ❤️ to join our growing family, and let’s journey together. New episodes drop weekly, brimming with real talk and practical wisdom for your relationships. Comment, like, and share this video with someone who’d benefit! Thanks for tuning in—let’s make today a step toward a brighter tomorrow. #ChristianCouple #GrowthMindset #PersonalDevelopment #EffectiveLiving #MyGrowthClub #Goals #Priorities #Wisdom #Relationships #Finance #Health

Tired of feeling like life is just a series of never-ending problems? In this episode, we dive deep into the reality that there are NO perfect solutions, only TRADE-OFFS! Join Emmanuel and Grace as they unpack Thomas Sowell's powerful quote and explore how understanding trade-offs can transform the way you make decisions, navigate marriage and relationships, and achieve your goals. We discuss:• How limited resources and energy impact your life and relationships • The truth about "fixing" things – it's always a trade-off! • Real-life examples of trade-offs in marriage, career, and personal choices • The importance of "counting the cost" and making INFORMED decisions • Factoring in human behavior – because people are unpredictable! • Why we often recycle the same problems in marriage and throughout history • And much more! If you're ready to stop chasing "perfect solutions" and start making intentional, informed choices, this episode is for you! Resources MentionedThese tools can help you put what you’ve learned into practice: • Effective Living Journal: Grab your copy at https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DRZWRQ82. It’s perfect for reflecting and tracking your progress. ️ Notion Templates: Explore additional resources at https://www.notion.com/@mygrowthclub. There’s something here for everyone! We’d Love to Hear From You!Subscribe ❤️ to join our growing family, and let’s journey together. New episodes drop weekly, brimming with real talk and practical wisdom for your relationships. Comment, like, and share this video with someone who’d benefit! Thanks for tuning in—let’s make today a step toward a brighter tomorrow. #TradeOffs #DecisionMaking #ChristianCouple #LifeLessons #PersonalGrowth #Relationships #EmmanuelAndGrace #ThomasSowell #EffectiveLiving

Today on My Growth Club, we discuss how the way you see stuff can totally flip your world and relationships , the trick to reorienting your mindset and feeling better, and easy ways to tackle challenges in your relationship or marriage. Enjoy! We’d Love to Hear From You! Subscribe to join our growing family, and let’s journey together. New episodes drop weekly, brimming with real talk and practical wisdom for your relationships. Comment, like, and share this video with someone who’d benefit! Thanks for tuning in—let’s make today a step toward a brighter tomorrow.

Welcome to My Growth Club with Emmanuel and Grace! What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Life Experiences and Learnings -"Life is a process of becoming, a continuous process of learning." - John Dewey• Explore your key significant experiences and their impact on you. • Reflect on the positive and negative impact of those experiences. • Reflect on beliefs formed as a result of your life experiences. • Practice gratitude. • Understand your emotional and behavioral reactions are as a result of your life experiences. • Identify your personal needs as a human. • Explore your mental image of a good and successful life. Core Beliefs and Worldview: "Beliefs are the compass and maps we use to navigate and make sense of the world" — Scott H. Young• Reevaluate your beliefs and align your worldview with reality. • Develop a personal worldview. • Identify your limiting beliefs and thoughts. • Acknowledge your life expectations. We’d Love to Hear From You!Subscribe to join our growing family, and let’s journey together. New episodes drop weekly, brimming with real talk and practical wisdom for your relationships.

Welcome to another insightful episode of My Growth Club with Emmanuel and Grace! In this episode, we get raw and real about the everyday hustle of life, marriage, raising children, and demanding careers. We unpack the crucial idea of how to effectively commit your energy to what truly matters and avoid burnout in the process. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: The Energy Drain: How modern life's demands can deplete your energy, impacting your relationships and personal well-being. Prioritizing Intimacy: Practical ways to infuse intimacy into daily life, even amidst a busy schedule. It’s not just about planned moments, but about allowing it to fuse with everyday activities. Parenting with Intention: How to commit focused energy to raising children and overcome the challenge of limited time. The "Work" Equation: Understanding "work" as not just a job, but the energy you put into every aspect of life - marriage, parenting, finances, and personal goals. Planning and Intentionality: The importance of planning and setting intentions for how you spend your time and energy to ensure you invest in what's most important. Managing Expectations: Why managing expectations of yourself and your partner is crucial for a happy relationship and avoiding unnecessary frustration. The Power of Small Moments: How small, intentional moments of connection can be more impactful than large, infrequent gestures. Balancing Act: Strategies for balancing multiple priorities and finding harmony between career, family, and personal needs. Resources Mentioned:• Effective Living Journal: “https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DRZWRQ82”• Effective Living Notion System: “https://www.notion.com/templates/effectivelivingos”• Effective Living Family Notion System: “https://www.notion.com/templates/effectivelivingfamilysystem” Our Gift to You:• Family/Friends 365 Bible Study: Get it for free here: “https://www.notion.com/templates/family-friends-365-days-bible-study” • More Notion Templates: Explore at “https://www.notion.com/@mygrowthclub” Come Grow With Us! Join the My Growth Club community here: “https://nkemmanuel.notion.site/16e4f941d6ae80f789d6ca7bfb47e6b8” We’d Love to Hear From You! Subscribe to join our growing family, and let’s continue this journey together. New episodes drop weekly, filled with real talk and practical wisdom for your relationships. Comment, like, and share this video with someone who could benefit from it! Thank you for tuning in! Let’s make today a stepping stone toward a brighter tomorrow.

Welcome to another episode of My Growth Club, hosted by Emmanuel and Grace! In this episode, we dive deep into the idea of success, expectations, and the unseen forces driving our choices. Many of us are chasing a certain feeling—whether it’s success, love, or fulfillment—without realizing how much our expectations, shaped by society, media, and personal beliefs, influence our happiness. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: The Illusion of Success – How societal expectations shape our definition of success and why many people feel unfulfilled even after achieving their goals. The Power of Expectations – Why unrealistic expectations can lead to frustration in relationships, marriage, and life. Redefining Success for yourself – How to shift from chasing things to embracing a state of flourishing—where growth, purpose, and genuine fulfillment thrive. Lowering unrealistic expectations = More happiness – Instead of expecting perfection, focus on mutual growth. Affective Forecasting Errors: – Studies demonstrate that we tend to overestimate the intensity and duration of our future emotional reactions, making us vulnerable to disappointment when outcomes don’t match our predictions. Hedonic Adaptation: Research shows that tying happiness to specific outcomes (e.g., achieving a goal) often leads to only temporary joy as we quickly return to our baseline emotional state. The Identity-Behavior Cycle – How your core beliefs shape your choices, emotions, and long-term happiness.   Resources Mentioned: • Effective Living Journal: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DRZWRQ82 • Effective Living Notion System: https://www.notion.com/templates/effectivelivingos • Effective Living Family Notion System: https://www.notion.com/templates/effectivelivingfamilysystem Our Gift to You: • Family/Friends 365 Bible Study: Get it for free here: https://www.notion.com/templates/family-friends-365-days-bible-study • More Notion Templates: Explore at https://www.notion.com/@mygrowthclub

Welcome to another enlightening episode of My Growth Club with your hosts, Emmanuel and Grace! In this video, we dive deep into the art of argumentation in relationships, revealing how effective communication can transform conflicts into opportunities for growth and understanding. What You’ll Discover in This Episode: • The Essence of Argument:Understand the crucial difference between arguing and fighting. Learn how to craft constructive arguments that lead to better life choices without resorting to personal attacks. • Common Fallacies in Conversations:Explore logical fallacies such as ad hominem, strawman, and false dilemma that often derail discussions and create misunderstandings in relationships. • Improving Your Argument Skills:Get practical tips on presenting your points clearly, listening actively, and engaging in discussions that promote growth rather than discord. • Arguments in Relationships:Hear from Emmanuel and Grace as they share personal experiences on how mastering the art of argumentation has strengthened their marriage—and how it can do the same for you. Key Takeaways: • The Necessity of Arguments:Understand why having disagreements is essential in relationships for making informed decisions. • Avoiding Communication Pitfalls:Learn to steer clear of common errors that escalate conflicts unnecessarily. • Seeking Mutual Understanding:Remember that the goal is not to “win” an argument but to reach mutual understanding and foster better outcomes. Resources Mentioned: • Effective Living Journal: “https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DRZWRQ82” • Effective Living Notion System: “https://www.notion.com/templates/effectivelivingos” • Effective Living Family Notion System: “https://www.notion.com/templates/effectivelivingfamilysystem” Our Gift to You: • Family/Friends 365 Bible Study: Get it for free here: “https://www.notion.com/templates/family-friends-365-days-bible-study” • More Notion Templates: Explore at “https://www.notion.com/@mygrowthclub” Come Grow With Us! Join the My Growth Club community here: “https://nkemmanuel.notion.site/16e4f941d6ae80f789d6ca7bfb47e6b8” We’d Love to Hear From You! Subscribe to join our growing family, and let’s continue this journey together. New episodes drop weekly, filled with real talk and practical wisdom for your relationships. Don’t forget to comment, like, and share this video with someone who could benefit from it! Thank you for tuning in!Let’s make today a stepping stone toward a brighter tomorrow. #EffectiveCommunication #RelationshipGoals #HealthyArguments #ConflictResolution #MarriageAdvice #PersonalGrowth #SelfImprovement #CommunicationSkills #LogicalThinking #Fallacies #CouplesTherapy #RelationshipTips #LifeLessons #Argumentation #BetterTogether #GrowthMindset #LearnToArgue #RelationshipBuilding #LifeSkills #EmotionalIntelligence

Welcome to another transformative episode of My Growth Club, with your hosts Emmanuel and Grace! In today's video, we dive deep into the impact of the choices we make every single day and how they shape everything in our lives. We kick things off by discussing how choices are more than just decisions—they are the building blocks that determine the direction of our lives. Here's what you will learn: • The Identity Behavior Cycle: How your beliefs mold your perceptions, and determine your expectations, affect your emotions, and influence your choices and actions.• Expected vs. Desired Outcomes: Why aiming for what's expected rather than just what's desired can transform your decision-making process for the better.• Making Good Judgments: Learn strategies for making thoughtful choices that genuinely propel you towards your expected outcomes.• Overcoming the People-Pleasing Trap: Discover how to break free from the cycle of making decisions based on others' expectations rather than your own.• Overcoming the Fear of Being Wrong or "Failure" Trap: Learn why it's not only okay to fail but crucial for personal growth. We think you will love it. Resources We Mentioned: Effective Living Journal: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DRZWRQ82 Effective Living Notion System: https://www.notion.com/templates/effectivelivingos Effective Living Family Notion System: https://www.notion.com/templates/effectivelivingfamilysystem Our Gift to You:Get our Family/Friends 365 Bible Study for free here: https://www.notion.com/templates/family-friends-365-days-bible-study Find more Notion Templates at: https://www.notion.com/@mygrowthclub Come Grow With Us!Join My Growth Club: https://nkemmanuel.notion.site/16e4f941d6ae80f789d6ca7bfb47e6b8 We’d Love to Hear From You!Subscribe to join our growing family, and let’s continue this journey together. New episodes drop weekly, packed with real talk & practical wisdom for your relationships. Don’t forget to comment, like, and share this with someone who needs it! Thank you for tuning in! Let's make today a stepping stone to a better tomorrow. #EffectiveLiving #FamilyLife #LifeChoices #PersonalGrowth #DecisionMaking #RelationshipGoals #GrowthMindset #MyGrowthClub #MindfulDecisions #SelfImprovement #LifeHacks #MotivationMonday #Empowerment #LifeLessons #ChangeYourLife #SuccessMindset #Productivity #MentalHealth #AuthenticLiving #SelfAwareness #GoalSetting

Hey, fam! It's Emmanuel and Grace here, back with another episode from My Growth Club. We're diving into something that's been a game-changer for us - principles and priorities. Trust me, this isn't just some high-brow chat; it's the real deal from our own life's mess-ups and victories. We've had our share of "what was I thinking" moments, like when I gave away all the cash in my wallet without realizing Grace had plans for it. But through those laughs and tears, we learned setting principles and priorities is like finding the map to life’s treasure. We hope you enjoy this conversation like we did. Resources We Mentioned: Effective Living Journal: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DRZWRQ82 Effective Living Notion System: https://www.notion.com/templates/effectivelivingos Effective Living Family Notion System: https://www.notion.com/templates/effectivelivingfamilysystem Our Gift to You:Get our Family/Friends 365 Bible Study for free here: https://www.notion.com/templates/family-friends-365-days-bible-study Find more Notion Templates at: https://www.notion.com/@mygrowthclub Come Grow With Us!Join My Growth Club: https://nkemmanuel.notion.site/16e4f941d6ae80f789d6ca7bfb47e6b8 We’d Love to Hear From You!Subscribe to join our growing family, and let’s continue this journey together. New episodes drop weekly, packed with real talk & practical wisdom for your relationships. Don’t forget to comment, like, and share this with someone who needs it! #PrinciplesAndPriorities #MarriageJourney #LifeHacks #SpiritualGrowth #RelationshipGoals #MoneyTalks #LifeManagement #NotionHacks #Productivity #ChristianLife #CouplesLife #LifeSkills #SelfImprovement #GoalSetting Life's too wild to navigate without some rules of your own. Let's set our principles and priorities together, and make every moment count. Catch you next week for more from My Growth Club!

Hello In today's heart-to-heart conversation, Emmanuel and Grace open up about a game-changing discovery in their marriage. We're sharing something so simple yet powerful that it completely changed how we communicate and understand each other. ✨ What You'll Learn: The Identity-behaviour cycle behind your emotions and actions An understanding that stopped quarrels and clashes, and improved our arguments greatly Real talk about breaking through communication barriers How our past experiences shape the way we see things Simple ways to make your partner feel truly heard and understood Resources we spoke about: Our Effective Living Journal: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DRZWRQ82 Our Notion System: https://www.notion.com/@mygrowthclub Come Grow With Us! Join My Growth Club: https://nkemmanuel.notion.site/16e4f941d6ae80f789d6ca7bfb47e6b8 Our Gift to You: We're sharing all the raw, real moments - including that time we figured out why Emmanuel was raising his voice, and how Grace learned to handle her fears. We'd Love to Hear From You! Subscribe to join our growing family. Let's grow and learn together. New episodes drop every week, filled with more real talk and practical wisdom for your relationships!

In this episode, Emmanuel and Grace reveal how they’ve maintained a stress-free, fight-free relationship. Drawing from 5 years of research into life and how we should live it, they share the unique models and strategies they've developed to navigate life’s challenges together. From leveraging tools like Notion for organization to redefining relationship dynamics, they share practical insights and transformative ideas. Whether you're newly married, in a long-term relationship, or just curious about building stronger connections, you won’t want to miss this. #MarriageTips #StressFreeRelationships #Notion #NotionForCouples #LifeModels #RelationshipGoals #ConflictResolution

In this episode, Emmanuel and Grace open up about how they tackled life's challenges and embraced personal growth using the Effective Living Journal. Through years of research and thoughtful synthesis of various insights, they developed the Effective Living Model—a powerful framework for living a balanced, purpose-driven life. Discover the stories, lessons, and practical advice behind their journey. From building resilience to cultivating intentionality, this conversation is packed with inspiration for anyone striving to live effectively. ✨ What You’ll Learn: • How the Effective Living Model was created• The importance of reflecting on life experiences• The transformative power of the Effective Living Journal Exciting News:The Effective Living Journal and the accompanying Notion OS are launching soon! Stay tuned for more details on how you can get these game-changing tools to design your best life. Don’t Forget to Subscribe:Hit the like button and subscribe for more insights on personal growth, effective living, and productivity. ️ P.S.: Emmanuel wasn’t feeling 100%, but his dedication made this episode possible. Don’t miss it! #EffectiveLiving #PersonalGrowth #SelfImprovement #Productivity #Journaling

Four years ago, we embarked on a life-changing journey to uncover what truly makes life fulfilling and meaningful. Starting as new parents, we were completely clueless about our purpose and how to live effectively. What we discovered was nothing short of transformational! To share these powerful lessons, we've created the Effective Living Journal and the Effective Living Notion OS – not just theories, but practical tools and systems to help you live better and stress-free. ✅ Over 20 mind exercises, planners, and trackers in the Journal ✅ A complete living system in Notion to: • Manage your energy and resources • Streamline family and home organization • Keep your entire life in one place ✨ Take control of your mind, maximize your productivity, and build a happier, more balanced life. Join us as we share our personal journey, life-changing lessons, and the tools that can help YOU live effectively. Let’s make life simpler, more fulfilling, and less stressful – together. Start your journey with the Effective Living Journal & Notion OS today! #EffectiveLiving #NotionOS #LifeDesign #PersonalGrowth #FamilyManagement