In this powerful and deeply personal episode, Matt explores the gap between performative autism awareness and the lived experiences of autistic adults. With April bringing the usual wave of blue lights and puzzle pieces, this episode is a clear-eyed call to go deeper- to move beyond slogans and into real understanding, action, and inclusion.

Through honest storytelling, Matt reflects on the impact of late diagnosis, the cost of lifelong masking, and the grief and relief that come with finally being seen. He unpacks the history of public autism narratives, the invisibility of autistic adults in awareness campaigns, and the importance of centering actually autistic voices in conversations about autism.

Whether you're autistic, love someone who is, or are just beginning to learn, this episode invites you to question assumptions, expand your perspective, and rethink what true allyship looks like.

It's not about being perfectly informed. It's about being open. Curious. Empathetic. Supportive.

Take a listen- and consider what it means to really see someone.