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Motivated Masculine Men "The conversations Men don’t normally have!"
Chris Chandler-Yates
213 episodes
2 hours ago
The Conversations Men don’t normally have! Real conversations men only have with their closest brothers. Around the fire, over a drink, we talk wins, dark times, and everything between. Let's push men to know themselves, build deeper bonds, and lead with purpose.
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The Conversations Men don’t normally have! Real conversations men only have with their closest brothers. Around the fire, over a drink, we talk wins, dark times, and everything between. Let's push men to know themselves, build deeper bonds, and lead with purpose.
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Motivated Masculine Men "The conversations Men don’t normally have!"
Interview #15 – Franziska Reichardt-Willetts – What Women Really Want From Masculine Men

In this episode, Chris sits down with Franziska Reichardt-Willetts to explore how women view masculinity, communication, and emotional strength in today’s world. Franziska opens up about her personal evolution—from a marriage based on image and security to one rooted in emotional safety, mutual respect, and shared growth. Together, they unpack what true strength looks like in modern men and how calmness, presence, and empathy can be more powerful than aggression or ego.

They discuss how confidence and empathy work hand in hand, why chivalry still matters, and how women feel safe to express their femininity when men lead with integrity. This honest conversation dives deep into what women genuinely desire from men in relationships, how to build trust through action and communication, and the role of understanding gender dynamics in creating lasting connection.


Guest Bio / Connection

Franziska Reichardt-Willetts is an advocate for emotional intelligence, equality, and authentic relationships. With a background in community work and suicide prevention, she brings a grounded and compassionate perspective to how men and women can better understand each other and build partnerships that thrive on respect and growth.


Connect with Franziska Reichardt-Willetts

Fran.electratech@gmail.com


Connect with Motivated Masculine Men

🌐 www.motivatedmasculinemen.com
📧 brotherhood@motivatedmasculinemen.com
📱 Follow on social media: @MotivatedMasculineMen
⭐ Leave a rating and review to help us reach more men
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What You’ll Learn

  • What women actually find attractive in strong, grounded men

  • Why emotional safety and calm confidence matter more than image or money

  • How chivalry and kindness still play a role in modern relationships

  • The balance between confidence, empathy, and communication

  • Why understanding gender dynamics builds better connections

  • How men can lead with purpose while creating space for feminine energy


This episode is a powerful reminder that masculinity isn’t about dominance—it’s about presence, patience, and purpose. It’s a conversation every man needs to hear to better understand what women truly want and how to lead with strength and heart.

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2 hours ago
56 minutes 46 seconds

Motivated Masculine Men "The conversations Men don’t normally have!"
Episode #14 – Eric McCants – Brotherhood, Accountability, and the Realities of the Badge

In this episode, Chris sits down with Eric McCants to explore how a life of service shapes character, relationships, and masculinity. Together they unpack lessons from years in law enforcement, goal setting, and personal growth while discussing how men can lead with integrity in every area of life.

They dive into how responsibility, self-awareness, and communication play a vital role in being a protector, partner, and leader. From navigating the pressures of policing to maintaining mental health and building strong relationships, this conversation gives men the tools to balance caution, confidence, and clarity in both work and family life.


Guest Bio

Eric McCants is a law enforcement professional who brings wisdom from years on the job and a deep understanding of personal accountability. His perspective on leadership, relationships, and growth comes from real experience—facing challenges, learning through mistakes, and leading with humility.


Connect with Eric McCants

🔗 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/eric-mccants-3a3920192/

Connect with Motivated Masculine Men

🌐 www.motivatedmasculinemen.com
📧 brotherhood@motivatedmasculinemen.com
📱 Follow on social media: @MotivatedMasculineMen
⭐ Leave a rating and review to help us reach more men
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What You’ll Learn

  • How real experiences in law enforcement shape personal growth

  • Why accountability is the foundation of strong masculinity

  • The importance of balance between vigilance and peace

  • How clear communication strengthens leadership and relationships

  • Why men must seek support and openness around mental health

  • The value of honesty, boundaries, and vulnerability in modern relationships

This episode challenges men to own their actions, lead with clarity, and communicate with purpose. It’s about learning from pressure, standing firm in integrity, and growing through every season of life.

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1 week ago
1 hour 9 minutes 31 seconds

Motivated Masculine Men "The conversations Men don’t normally have!"
Interview #13 – Scott Fasano – Redefining Success and Masculinity in a Modern World

In this episode, Chris sits down with Scott Fasano, founder of Defy Tomorrow, for a grounded and thought-provoking conversation about modern masculinity and the pursuit of true fulfillment. Together, they unpack what it means to live with purpose, presence, and alignment in a world that constantly pushes men toward external success and distraction.

Scott shares his journey from chasing achievement to rediscovering meaning through family, self-awareness, and intentional living. The two explore how men can reconnect with who they really are, rather than who they’re told to be.

They dive deep into the three pillars of masculinity—protect, provide, and preside—and how men can build stronger families, relationships, and communities by leading with alignment and clarity.

Scott Fasano is the founder of Defy Tomorrow, a platform helping men challenge their limits, lead with authenticity, and build lives of meaning and strength. Through his coaching, writing, and Substack publication Already There Journal, Scott inspires men to find balance between discipline, purpose, and presence.


Connect with Scott

🔗 Website: www.defytomorrow.com

📰 Substack: Already There Journal

💼 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/scottfasano

✉️ Email: scott@defytomorrow.com


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🌐 www.motivatedmasculinemen.com

📧 brotherhood@motivatedmasculinemen.com
Follow on social media: @MotivatedMasculineMen

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What You’ll Learn

  • Why redefining success is vital for today’s man

  • How to live and lead from alignment, not ego

  • The connection between purpose, presence, and fulfillment

  • How the three pillars of masculinity guide strong leadership

  • Practical steps to build confidence and clarity in everyday life

This episode is for men ready to lead with purpose, live with authenticity, and redefine what true success means.


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2 weeks ago
1 hour 39 minutes 53 seconds

Motivated Masculine Men "The conversations Men don’t normally have!"
Interview #12 – Ryan Rodriquez: Forged by Fire – Building Resilience, Leadership, and Relationships

In this conversation, Chris sits down with Ryan Rodriquez, founder of IGNITEd, a platform dedicated to helping men build strength, resilience, and purpose through his FIRE framework: Fitness, Intellect, Relationships, and Energy. Ryan shares his journey from firefighter and paramedic to leadership coach, podcast host, and mentor, highlighting lessons on masculinity, relationships, and personal growth. They dive deep into the three pillars of masculinity; protect, provide, and preside, and explore how men can build stronger families, relationships, and communities by leading with alignment and clarity. This conversation provides actionable insights for men who want to lead with purpose while cultivating meaningful connections.

Ryan Rodriquez is a firefighter, paramedic, and founder of IGNITEd, where he coaches individuals in resilience, leadership, and holistic personal development. He hosts the "Forged by Fire" podcast and holds a master’s degree in organizational leadership, helping men cultivate strength, clarity, and meaningful connections.


Connect with Guest

🌐 Website: https://www.ignitedff.com📸 Instagram: @ignitedff


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📱 Follow on social media: @MotivatedMasculineMen⭐ Leave a rating and review to help us reach more listeners🎧 Subscribe so you never miss an episode


What You’ll Learn

  • How Ryan’s FIRE framework helps men build resilience and balance in life

  • The three pillars of masculinity—protect, provide, and preside—and how leading with alignment and clarity strengthens families, relationships, and communities

  • Techniques for aligning energy, vision, and values with your partner for a thriving relationship

  • How to set boundaries, communicate effectively, and use frustration as a signal for growth

  • Strategies for overcoming worst-case scenario thinking and building mental resilience

  • The role of the hero’s journey and daily archetypes in personal development

  • Reconciling past trauma and practicing authenticity in personal and professional relationships

If you’re ready to build deeper connections, embrace authentic masculinity, and lead with purpose, this conversation with Ryan Rodriquez will challenge you to step into your full potential and cultivate strength, clarity, and meaningful impact in your life.


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3 weeks ago
1 hour 29 minutes 38 seconds

Motivated Masculine Men "The conversations Men don’t normally have!"
Interview #11 – Darren Silver | Reclaiming Vision and Belonging Through Nature

In this conversation, Darren Silver and Chris dive into what it means for men to reconnect with themselves through nature, vision quests, and rites of passage. Darren shares how his journey into wilderness survival and vision work shaped his path, while Chris reflects on his own transformation from police officer to guide for men. Together they explore belonging, surrender, and the modern male identity crisis, showing how nature offers a mirror for clarity, intimacy, and purpose.


Guest Bio

Darren Silver is a rite of passage guide, ceremonialist, and mentor with over a decade of experience leading vision quests and wilderness-based personal development work. His teachings focus on helping men find their true purpose and reconnect with their deepest passions through nature, story, and healing practices.


Connect with Darren

🌐 darrensilver.earth


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🌐 motivatedmasculinemen.com
📧 brotherhood@motivatedmasculinemen.com
📲 Follow on Instagram: @motivatedmasculinemen
⭐ Rate, review, and share the podcast to help more men find these conversations.
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What You’ll Learn

  • The difference between “small v vision” and “big V Vision”

  • Why nature connection is critical for men’s sense of belonging

  • How rites of passage help men reclaim confidence and purpose

  • Practical ways to surrender in everyday life

  • The modern crisis of male identity and how to address it

  • How nature supports intimacy, healing, and stronger relationships

  • Simple practices to connect with nature even in urban settings


This episode will challenge you to ask bigger questions about your life, your purpose, and your place in the world. Listen in and discover how reconnecting with nature can help you reclaim your vision and deepen your bonds as a man.


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1 month ago
1 hour 52 seconds

Motivated Masculine Men "The conversations Men don’t normally have!"
Interview #10 – Randal Snyder | Faith, Masculinity, and the Power of Honest Growth

In this conversation, Chris sits down with retired law enforcement officer and author Randal Snyder to talk about masculinity, faith, and personal responsibility. Randy opens up about his transition out of frontline policing after 25 years, the toll it took on his mental health, and how faith, family, and emotional growth reshaped his definition of strength. Together they dive into topics men often avoid, burnout, marriage, fatherhood, and society’s shifting view of masculinity while grounding the conversation in honesty, faith, and brotherhood.


Guest Bio

Randal Snyder is a retired law enforcement officer, investigator, author, and speaker. With over two decades in the field, much of it spent handling some of the toughest cases imaginable, Randy has turned his focus to writing, mentoring, and educating others on resilience, relationships, and internet safety. He is the author of Cyber Creeps and co-author with his daughter of the zombie-themed series Lovin’ Brains.


Connect with Randal Snyder


📚 Books: Cyber Creeps and Lovin’ Brains (available on Amazon)
https://linktr.ee/jedicop


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📱 Follow on social media: @MotivatedMasculineMen

🌐 Website: www.motivatedmasculinemen.com

📧 Email: brotherhood@motivatedmasculinemen.com

⭐ Leave a rating and review to help us reach more listeners

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What You’ll Learn


  • How 25 years in law enforcement shaped and tested Randy’s view of masculinity

  • Why emotional expression and faith are essential for men’s resilience

  • The dangers of repression, alcohol, and avoidance in dealing with trauma

  • How to balance strength and vulnerability as a husband and father

  • The role of shared values in building lasting relationships

  • Why society’s view of masculinity is shifting and what men can do about it

  • Practical advice for young men on building respect and authentic connections

  • How writing and creativity became part of Randy’s healing and brotherhood journey


This interview is a raw look at what it means to grow as a man while carrying the weight of service, family, and faith. If you’re looking for perspective on resilience, relationships, and the future of masculinity, you won’t want to miss it.

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1 month ago
1 hour 5 minutes 57 seconds

Motivated Masculine Men "The conversations Men don’t normally have!"
Interview #09 – Eugene Lee: Burnout, Masculinity, and Owning Your Growth

In this episode, Chris sits down with Eugene Lee to unpack burnout, masculinity, and the journey of personal growth. Eugene shares how hitting burnout pushed him to start a podcast for men, opening conversations many avoid. Together they explore the pressures men face, how traditional masculine traits can both fuel and sabotage success, and the importance of redefining strength through balance, vulnerability, and accountability.


Guest BioEugene Lee is the host of a top-rated burnout podcast and a voice for men navigating stress, leadership, and personal growth. After facing his own burnout, he now creates safe spaces for men to talk openly about masculinity, relationships, and mental health; online, in person, and through his growing platform.


Connect with Eugene Lee🎙 Podcast: Give Yourself some Leeway🌐 Website: https://www.eugenelee.com📱 Instagram: @eugene.leeway


Connect with Motivated Masculine Men📱 Follow on social media: @MotivatedMasculineMen🌐 Website: www.motivatedmasculinemen.com📧 Email: brotherhood@motivatedmasculinemen.com⭐ Leave a rating and review to help us reach more listeners🎧 Subscribe so you never miss an episode


What You’ll Learn

  • Why burnout can be both destructive and transformative for men

  • How traditional masculine traits like focus and control can lead to burnout if unchecked

  • The truth about “nice guy syndrome” and how it sabotages relationships

  • Practical ways to redefine providing and protecting in today’s world

  • Why vulnerability is critical for stronger friendships and intimacy

  • How to align values, purpose, and leadership with personal growth

If you’ve ever struggled with burnout, relationships, or carrying the weight of being a man, this episode will challenge you to rethink strength and redefine masculinity on your own terms.

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1 month ago
1 hour 3 minutes 55 seconds

Motivated Masculine Men "The conversations Men don’t normally have!"
Interview #08 – David Berez | Resilience, Trauma, and Authentic Masculinity

In this episode, Chris sits down with David Berez to explore resilience, masculinity, and the hard conversations men often avoid. David shares his journey from a difficult childhood through law enforcement service, surviving trauma, and finding purpose in helping others. Together they talk about PTSD, police mental health, fatherhood, divorce, authentic masculinity, and the importance of leading by example.


Guest Bio

David Berez is a retired police officer, author of A Resilient Life: Cops Journey in Pursuit of Purpose, and the only officer to complete the University of Pennsylvania’s Master’s in Applied Positive Psychology program. He now teaches resilience tools to men and law enforcement, helping them face trauma and find strength in purpose.


Connect with David Berez


📖 Book: A Resilient Life: Cops Journey in Pursuit of Purpose

🌐 Website: https://www.resilientcops.com

📧 Email: david@resilientcops.com


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📱 Follow on social media: @MotivatedMasculineMen

🌐 Website: www.motivatedmasculinemen.com

📧 Email: brotherhood@motivatedmasculinemen.com

⭐ Leave a rating and review to help us reach more listeners

🎧 Subscribe so you never miss an episode


What You’ll Learn

  • How surviving trauma shaped David’s path from law enforcement to teaching resilience

  • The mental health challenges police face during and after service

  • The impact of divorce on boys’ development and masculinity

  • Why courageous optimism is a foundation for positive masculinity

    • How authenticity and feedback drive growth and leadership
    • Practical tools for men to create purpose and lead by example


  • This conversation will challenge how you see resilience, masculinity, and your role as a man. Listen in and ask yourself, where can you step up with courageous optimism in your own life?

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    1 month ago
    1 hour 26 minutes 22 seconds

    Motivated Masculine Men "The conversations Men don’t normally have!"
    Interview #07 – Jeff Wenninger: From Adoption to Reforming the Badge | Leadership, Integrity & Purpose

    In this episode of Motivated Masculine Men, Chris Chandler-Yates sits down with retired LAPD Lieutenant Jeff Wenninger to unpack a career and life shaped by resilience and integrity.

    Jeff’s journey began with being adopted into a multiracial family in Ohio and a wrongful arrest in college that unexpectedly led him to policing. Over 33 years, he served in high-pressure roles like SWAT, K9, Metro Division, and the Rampart CRASH unit during federal oversight—all while holding onto empathy, diversity, and community connection.

    He shares how he avoided burnout by refusing to let the badge define him. Outside passions like hockey and youth coaching kept him grounded. Jeff also talks about the reforms policing needs now: smarter hiring, better training, mental health support, and building public trust through honest engagement.

    This conversation challenges men to rethink strength as a balance of discipline, vulnerability, and service.

    Learn More About Jeff Wenninger
    🌐 jeffwenninger.com
    📚 On Thin Ice – Insights into policing culture, leadership, and reform

    Connect with Motivated Masculine Men
    🌐 www.motivatedmasculinemen.com
    📧 brotherhood@motivatedmasculinemen.com
    📱 Follow on social media: @MotivatedMasculineMen
    ⭐ Leave a rating and review to help us reach more listeners
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    What You’ll Learn in This Episode

    • How early life shaped Jeff’s views on justice and leadership

    • Mindset shifts that prevented burnout in a demanding career

    • Why mentoring and role models matter for young men

    • Practical ideas for reforming law enforcement culture from within

    • How to maintain mission and purpose after leaving a long career

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    2 months ago
    1 hour 51 minutes

    Motivated Masculine Men "The conversations Men don’t normally have!"
    Interview #06 – Matthew Thomas: Embracing Strength and Vulnerability | The Modern Man’s Journey

    In this episode of Motivated Masculine Men, Chris Chandler-Yates sits down with Matthew Thomas to explore what healthy masculinity looks like today.

    They discuss Matthew’s experience in law enforcement and how high-stress situations shape a man’s identity. The conversation dives into the balance between strength and vulnerability, the protector instinct, and how fitness supports both physical and emotional resilience. They also talk about raising boys to understand modern masculinity and adapting core values as the world changes.

    Matthew shares insights from his book Interceptors and reflects on what it means for men to own their purpose while navigating today’s complex expectations.

    Connect with Matthew Thomas
    🌐 One Time Nation

    Connect with Motivated Masculine Men
    🌐 www.motivatedmasculinemen.com
    📧 brotherhood@motivatedmasculinemen.com
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    ⭐ Leave a rating and review to help us reach more listeners.
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    What You’ll Learn in This Episode

    • How law enforcement shapes masculine identity under pressure

    • Why vulnerability is essential for real strength

    • The protector instinct and what it means today

    • The role fitness plays in building resilience and relationships

    • How to raise boys with a healthy sense of masculinity

    • Navigating family dynamics while embracing purpose

    • Insights from Matthew’s book Interceptors on masculinity and service

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    2 months ago
    1 hour 42 minutes 37 seconds

    Motivated Masculine Men "The conversations Men don’t normally have!"
    Interview #05 – Robson da Silva: From Brazil to Brotherhood | Self-Respect, Identity & Emotional Strength

    In this episode of Motivated Masculine Men, Chris Chandler-Yates talks with Robson da Silva about his journey from Brazil to the United States and how that shaped his understanding of masculinity, self-respect, and connection.

    Robson shares the lessons he’s learned about loving yourself first, building strong relationships, and finding your identity as a man in a new culture. The conversation dives into the role of community in men’s lives, why vulnerability matters, and how music and personal rituals can keep a man grounded and emotionally sharp.

    This is a story about resilience, growth, and creating the kind of man you’re proud to be.

    Connect with Robson da Silva
    🌐 www.krrustic.com

    Connect with Motivated Masculine Men
    🌐 www.motivatedmasculinemen.com
    📧 brotherhood@motivatedmasculinemen.com
    📱 Follow on social media: @MotivatedMasculineMen
    ⭐ Leave a rating and review to help us reach more listeners.
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    What You’ll Learn in This Episode

    • Why self-respect is the foundation of healthy masculinity

    • How to love yourself without arrogance

    • The role of community in helping men thrive

    • How to build emotional connections that last

    • Why lowering expectations can improve relationships

    • How music shapes mood and mindset

    • Navigating relationships with open communication

    • The power of personal rituals for emotional well-being

    • Why men need to embrace and express their emotions

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    2 months ago
    1 hour 18 minutes 59 seconds

    Motivated Masculine Men "The conversations Men don’t normally have!"
    Interview #04 – Steven Marks: “Don’t Be Afraid to Talk to Somebody” – Brotherhood, Vulnerability & Life After the Badge

    In this episode of Motivated Masculine Men, Chris Chandler-Yates sits down with retired Special Agent Steven Marks to talk about the unspoken realities of masculinity—especially for men in law enforcement.

    Steven opens up about the burnout and pressure that come with the badge, the tightrope between healthy and toxic masculinity, and why vulnerability isn’t weakness—it’s strength. They dive deep into the brotherhood that sustains men through hard times, the identity crisis many face after retirement, and how to find purpose beyond the job.

    Whether you’ve worn a uniform or not, this conversation is a powerful reminder that every man needs connection, honesty, and a reason to keep showing up.

    Connect with Steven Marks
    🌐 www.warriormindspirit.com
    📱 Instagram: @warriormindspirit
    📱 TikTok: @warriormindandspirit

    Connect with Motivated Masculine Men
    🌐 www.motivatedmasculinemen.com
    📧 brotherhood@motivatedmasculinemen.com
    📱 Follow on social media: @MotivatedMasculineMen
    ⭐ Leave a rating and review to help us reach more listeners.
    🎧 Subscribe so you never miss an episode.

    What You’ll Learn in This Episode

    • The difference between healthy and toxic masculinity in high-pressure jobs.

    • How burnout impacts men in law enforcement—and how to recover.

    • Why vulnerability builds strength and deeper connection.

    • The importance of brotherhood and strong male friendships.

    • How to navigate the identity crisis after leaving a career of service.

    • The role of physical and mental health in staying grounded.

    • Why purpose matters for men at every stage of life.

    • Practical daily rituals to stay focused and resilient.

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    2 months ago
    1 hour 30 minutes 1 second

    Motivated Masculine Men "The conversations Men don’t normally have!"
    Interview #03 – JP Fluellen: “I Don’t Want That to Be My Legacy” – Balancing Strength, Sensitivity & Purpose

    In this episode of Motivated Masculine Men, Chris Chandler-Yates sits down with JP Fluellen to unpack what it really means to leave a legacy worth remembering. Together, they dive into the balance of strength and sensitivity, exploring how men can live with purpose, protect their health, and show up fully in their relationships.

    From navigating the pressure to define masculinity in today’s world, to the role of fitness, fatherhood, and intentional friendships, Chris and JP cut through the noise with personal stories and hard-earned lessons. They explore how children learn from the example men set, why supportive brotherhoods are critical, and how to set boundaries that protect your family while deepening connection.

    This isn’t just about looking strong—it’s about being strong in the moments that matter, living with presence, and building a life you’d be proud to hand down.

    Connect with JP Fluellen
    🌐 JP Fluellen Links
    🌐 House Needs Love

    Connect with Motivated Masculine Men
    🌐 www.motivatedmasculinemen.com
    📧 brotherhood@motivatedmasculinemen.com
    📱 Follow on social media: @MotivatedMasculineMen
    ⭐ Leave a rating and review to help us reach more listeners.
    🎧 Subscribe so you never miss an episode.

    What You’ll Learn in This Episode

    • Why purpose—not just success—defines a man’s legacy.

    • How fitness impacts confidence, energy, and masculinity.

    • The difference between healthy and toxic masculinity.

    • How children absorb values from their father’s example.

    • The power of intentional male friendships for support and growth.

    • Why boundaries protect both relationships and family unity.

    • How to stay present and fully engaged in your life.

    • Practical steps to strengthen love and connection in partnerships.

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    2 months ago
    1 hour 30 minutes 47 seconds

    Motivated Masculine Men "The conversations Men don’t normally have!"
    Interview #02 – Ashley Smith: “Don’t Be a Dick” – Building Respect & Partnership in Modern Relationships

    In this episode of Motivated Masculine Men, Chris Chandler-Yates sits down with Ashley Smith to dig deep into the real work it takes to build strong, respectful, and lasting relationships in today’s world.

    From the shifting ground of modern gender roles to the importance of vulnerability, communication, and boundaries, Chris and Ashley tackle what makes—or breaks—partnerships. They explore how cultural backgrounds shape our ideas of masculinity and femininity, the evolution of DEI initiatives, and the role of physical appearance in both personal and professional opportunities.

    Ashley brings a clear, no-nonsense perspective: relationships should be a team effort, not a hierarchy. Chris reinforces that men who embrace emotional intelligence, self-respect, and authentic connection not only strengthen their relationships but also redefine what it means to lead as a man.

    If you’ve ever wondered how to navigate modern dating, maintain balance in long-term partnerships, and be the kind of man who inspires trust and respect, this conversation delivers the blueprint.

    Connect with Ashley Smith
    🌐 Links Hub
    🌐 Social Jargn

    Connect with Motivated Masculine Men
    🌐 www.motivatedmasculinemen.com
    📧 brotherhood@motivatedmasculinemen.com
    📱 Follow on social media: @MotivatedMasculineMen
    ⭐ Leave a rating and review to help us reach more listeners.
    🎧 Subscribe so you never miss an episode.

    What You’ll Learn in This Episode

    • Why healthy masculinity blends strength, respect, and emotional intelligence.

    • How cultural perspectives influence how we see gender roles.

    • Why communication is the backbone of any successful relationship.

    • How to set boundaries without building walls.

    • The evolving challenges of modern dating for men.

    • The difference between compromise and sacrifice in partnerships.

    • Why teamwork—not hierarchy—creates lasting relationships.

    • The role of self-respect in attracting and keeping the right partner.

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    2 months ago
    1 hour 38 minutes 39 seconds

    Motivated Masculine Men "The conversations Men don’t normally have!"
    Interview #01 – John Smith: "I'm Just a Working Class Man" – Navigating Modern Masculinity

    In this episode, Chris sits down with John Smith to unpack what it means to be a man today. They explore how masculinity is evolving ,cutting through the noise around “toxic masculinity” to focus on what healthy masculinity really looks like: responsibility, vulnerability, and purpose.

    John shares personal stories about managing work stress, maintaining relationships, and the importance of physical and mental health. Together, they highlight how men can communicate better, build strong support networks, and know when to hold on or walk away from relationships.

    This conversation is a reminder that masculinity isn’t about hiding emotions or fitting a mold, it’s about knowing yourself, growing continuously, and leading with integrity.

    Connect with John Smith
    🎧 Podcast: I Shower After Work
    📧 john@isawpodcast.com | hosts@isawpodcast.com
    🌐 isawpodcast.com

    Connect with Motivated Masculine Men
    📱 Follow on social media: @MotivatedMasculineMen
    🌐 www.motivatedmasculinemen.com
    📧 brotherhood@motivatedmasculinemen.com
    ⭐ Leave a rating and review to help us reach more listeners.
    🎧 Subscribe so you never miss an episode.

    What You’ll Learn

    • Why vulnerability is key to growth and stronger relationships

    • How to spot and reject toxic behavior without confusing it with masculinity

    • The importance of honest communication at work and home

    • How physical health ties into emotional well-being

    • Building a support system beyond your partner

    • Recognizing when to fight for or exit a relationship

    • Practical steps toward personal growth and self-care


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    2 months ago
    1 hour 47 minutes 46 seconds

    Motivated Masculine Men "The conversations Men don’t normally have!"
    Episode #139 – Jeff Wenninger: From Adoption to Reforming the Badge

    In this episode of Fight the Burnout, Chris sits down with retired LAPD Lieutenant Jeff Wenninger to unpack a career and life shaped by resilience, integrity, and purpose.From being adopted into a multiracial family in Ohio, to a wrongful arrest in college that unexpectedly set him on the path into policing, Jeff’s story is one of transformation through adversity. Over his 33-year career, he served in some of the most high-pressure roles in law enforcement: SWAT, K9, Metro Division, and the Rampart CRASH unit during its federal oversight period, while never losing sight of the importance of empathy, diversity, and community connection.Jeff shares how he avoided severe burnout by refusing to let the badge define him, maintaining outside passions like hockey and coaching youth, and mentoring others in the importance of masculine leadership rooted in integrity. He also opens up about the reforms he believes policing urgently needs today: smarter hiring, more comprehensive training, better mental health support, and building public trust through consistent, authentic engagement.If you’re a man navigating leadership, purpose, or high-pressure environments, this conversation will inspire you to rethink strength, not as unfeeling toughness, but as the balance of discipline, vulnerability, and service.Learn More About Jeff Wenninger🌐 Website: ⁠https://jeffwenninger.com/⁠📚 Book: On Thin Ice – Insights into policing culture, leadership, and reform.What You’ll Learn in This EpisodeHow early life experiences shaped Jeff’s perspective on justice and leadership.The mindset shifts that helped him navigate and prevent burnout in a demanding career.Why mentoring and positive role models are critical for shaping young men’s futures.Practical ideas for reforming law enforcement culture from the inside out.How to maintain mission and purpose after leaving a long-term career.Connect with Motivated Masculine Men📱 Follow on social media: @MotivatedMasculineMen⭐ Leave a rating and review to help us reach more listeners.🎧 Subscribe so you never miss an episode.

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    2 months ago
    1 hour 51 minutes

    Motivated Masculine Men "The conversations Men don’t normally have!"
    Interview #138 - Hi Nguyen - Royal Canadian Mounted Police, Elevating Leadership in Law Enforcement

    In this compelling episode of Fight the Burnout, Chris engages in a profound conversation with Hi Nguyen, a seasoned Royal Canadian Mounted Police Officer with 13 years of diverse experience. Hi shares his journey from general duties officer to counter-terrorist and personal security officer, emphasizing the high-level trauma and paranoia that came with the job.

    Listen as Hi narrates his burnout experience, triggered by intense work following a parliamentary active shooter situation. This turning point led Hi to recognize the critical role of effective leadership in combating burnout and promoting well-being.

    Discover how Hi transitioned from personal protection officer to a leadership coach, working with fellow officers to instill leadership skills that enhance productivity and reduce burnout. Explore the vital lessons he imparts to the law enforcement community.

    Connect with Hi Nguyen through www.team-up.ca or on LinkedIn at www.linkedin.com/in/hi-nguyen-28412a124. Reach out via email at go@team-up.ca.

    For more insights from Chris Chandler-Yates and to explore what he offers, visit www.createfromwhy.com.

    Subscribe to "Fight the Burnout" for empowering stories, expert interviews, and actionable strategies. Don't miss this episode on elevating leadership in law enforcement! Like, subscribe, and share to spread knowledge and support for our dedicated officers.

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    6 months ago
    32 minutes 14 seconds

    Motivated Masculine Men "The conversations Men don’t normally have!"
    Interview #137 - Deborah Green - Navigating Trauma and Triumph: A 28 Year Dispatch Journey

    Join Chris Chandler-Yates as he interviews Deborah Green, a seasoned law enforcement dispatcher with 28 years of experience, as she shares the highs and lows of her impactful career. From Sacramento police to Eldorado County, Deborah discusses major events, including the LA riots and George Floyd protests.


    Delve into her experiences with PTSD and the unique stress faced by dispatchers. Explore the complexities of balancing work and personal life, the impact of trauma, and the crucial role of peer support.


    Discover coping mechanisms, the importance of mental health resources, and strategies for work-life balance. Uncover the connection between childhood trauma and law enforcement mental health.


    In this insightful episode, Deborah and Chris provide valuable insights and a blueprint for supporting the well-being of those dedicated to protecting and serving our communities.


    Subscribe to "Fight the Burnout" for more real stories, expert advice, and actionable strategies. Like, subscribe, and share to spread wisdom and support the law enforcement community.

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    1 year ago
    50 minutes 23 seconds

    Motivated Masculine Men "The conversations Men don’t normally have!"
    Interview #136 - Dave Maxx - Policing Insights and navigating 25 Years on the Beat

    In this compelling episode, we're joined by Dave Maxx, a former Chicago Police Officer with a stellar 25-year career under his belt. Dave's journey is nothing short of inspirational and brimming with wisdom, as he shares his three key principles for keeping the love for patrol as fresh as day one.

    Dave's approach to happiness and fulfillment in policing is both simple and remarkably effective. He unveils his insights, gleaned from a quarter-century of dedicated service, that will resonate with both law enforcement professionals and anyone seeking to thrive in their career.

    Notably, Dave takes us through his experiences during the Chicago looting and riots of 2021. He reveals how he ensured that the anti-police sentiment prevalent during this time didn't erode his passion for the job. Dave's resilience and commitment to his calling are truly awe-inspiring.

    This episode is a treasure trove of knowledge, skills, and strategies for those embarking on a long career in policing while safeguarding their well-being. Dave's invaluable insights will help you avoid getting lost in the demands of the job and maintain your passion for what you do.

    To learn more about what Dave is doing now visit:

    www.dmxdancecompany.com

    Email: support@dmxdancecompany.com

    Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode with your loved ones. Dave's journey and wisdom are bound to inspire and uplift anyone seeking a fulfilling career in law enforcement. Tune in to gain the insights you need to navigate your own path to success.

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    2 years ago
    1 hour 10 minutes 50 seconds

    Motivated Masculine Men "The conversations Men don’t normally have!"
    Interview #135 - Stephanie Kiesow's Journey, Transforming Workicide to Wellness - A police journey

    In this episode of "Fight the Burnout," we're joined by Stephanie Kiesow, a remarkable individual whose story is a testament to the power of resilience, self-discovery, and service to others. With a background in law enforcement and a profound understanding of workplace dynamics, Stephanie is on a mission to prevent what she terms "workicide" - the erosion of one's well-being due to career-related stress.

    Having spent 16 years in law enforcement, Stephanie's journey is marked by a deep commitment to making a positive impact. Her decision to leave the profession in 2022 was a complex one, driven by a desire for personal well-being and a dedication to helping others find balance in their careers.

    Stephanie's extensive educational background, including a BA in Psychology and an MA in Organizational Psychology, equips her with a unique perspective. As a Certified Financial Coach and a subject matter expert in suicide prevention/suicidology, she brings a wealth of knowledge to the field of workplace wellness.

    In this episode, Stephanie shares four actionable insights to recognize and counteract the destructive force of workicide. Her forthcoming book, complemented by a 10-week online course, offers critical steps for shifting from "Workicide to Wellness."

    Join us as we delve into Stephanie's journey, her dedication to personal and organizational wellness, and her unrelenting quest to illuminate the path to a healthier, more fulfilling career. Don't miss this empowering episode that promises valuable takeaways for anyone seeking to reclaim their well-being in the workplace.

    To find out more about Stephanie:

    Web: https://www.stephaniekiesow.com/

    Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephanie-k-1771761b5/

    Subscribe now to "Fight the Burnout" so you never miss an episode filled with inspiring stories and actionable strategies for combating burnout.

    Podcast Links are below.

    https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/chris-chandler-yates

    Spotify

    https://open.spotify.com/show/3SS5M7JrzbOkx72dtr7VCy

    Apple

    https://podcasts.apple.com/.../chris-c.../id1502325797

    Youtube

    https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLwCUjuCVIWvs000z775NHJ5ELM3lOyQZR&si=lm76o046Aj-01iBs

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    2 years ago
    57 minutes 36 seconds

    Motivated Masculine Men "The conversations Men don’t normally have!"
    The Conversations Men don’t normally have! Real conversations men only have with their closest brothers. Around the fire, over a drink, we talk wins, dark times, and everything between. Let's push men to know themselves, build deeper bonds, and lead with purpose.