Summary   In this episode, Gerren Taylor and Keith Richardson delve into the complexities of identity, influence, and the nature of social media. They discuss the difference between real connections and online followers, the importance of community, and the concept of the Dunbar number in understanding social relationships. The conversation highlights the crisis of friendship in modern society and emphasizes the need for meaningful connections over superficial ones. Ultimately, they advocate for a deeper approach to influence, focusing on resonance and authentic relationships rather than mere numbers.   Takeaways Identity is a complex exploration, especially when living abroad. Social media followers do not equate to real influence. The quality of connections matters more than quantity. The Dunbar number suggests we can only maintain a limited number of close relationships. Real influencers are those who can challenge and support you personally. The crisis of friendship is a growing concern in modern society. Meaningful connections are built on trust and reciprocity. Navigating conflict is essential for healthy relationships. Influence should be about depth, not breadth. Going outside and engaging with your community fosters real connections. Keywords: identity, influence, social media, connections, community, Dunbar number, friendship, meaningful relationships, online followers, authenticity Chapters 00:00 Exploring Identity and Influence 04:12 The Nature of Social Media Influence 07:21 Understanding Real Connections vs. Online Followers 13:16 The Dunbar Number and Its Implications 18:56 Navigating Validation and Real Influence 24:49 Building Meaningful Connections in a Digital Age   More In Common Website | https://www.moreincommonent.com/ Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/moreincommonent Twitter | https://twitter.com/MoreInCommonent Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/moreincommonpod