Is sex after kids even possible when you're exhausted, touched - out and overwhelmed?
In this episode of MOMents, host Madge Booth sits down with the renowned Dr. Marlene Wasserman (aka Dr. Eve) – clinical sexologist, trauma therapist and founder of the Dr. Eve brand – to explore what really happens to intimacy after motherhood.
From body image and burnout to desire discrepancies, this honest and compassionate conversation gives working moms the permission to talk about what no one else is saying out loud.
Dr. Eve offers real advice on how to rebuild connection, communicate your needs and reignite the spark – even when you’re knee-deep in parenting chaos.
You'll hear about:
How hormones and stress hijack your libido
Why self-care is essential (not selfish)
Tips for overcoming resentment and guilt
How to create small moments of joy and intimacy
Teaching your kids about boundaries, consent, and healthy relationships
Whether you're in a long-term relationship, co-parenting or just trying to feel like yourself again – this episode is for you.
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Timestamps for Easy Navigation:
00:00 – Welcome & Why We're Talking About Sex After Kids
01:20 – Meet Dr. Eve: Sexologist, Therapist & Mom
08:12 – What Holds Women Back Sexually After Motherhood
12:50 – Relationship Dynamics & Emotional Load
13:27 – The Power of Language in Sexual Expression
15:03 – How Parenting Changes Intimacy
21:22 – Exhaustion vs. Desire: The Struggle is Real
23:23 – Why Relaxation Matters for Libido
23:53 – Parenting with Multiple Kids = Low Desire?
25:21 – Adrenaline, Stress & Their Effects on Sex
25:58 – Finding Mini Moments of Calm for Connection
27:08 – Talking Guilt, Resentment & Sex
29:54 – Negotiating Sexual Preferences as a Couple
32:57 – Is It Just Fatigue or Is It Burnout?
38:29 – Confidence & Body Image After Birth
38:51 – How Social Media Warps Self-Image
41:05 – Fear of Pregnancy & Sexual Avoidance
43:35 – What's “Normal” Frequency Anyway?
45:00 – Desire for Connection Trumps Performance
46:43 – How to Rebuild Intimacy as a Team
47:17 – Why Women Have Sex: Unpacking Motivations
48:19 – Boundaries, Expectations & Communication
49:02 – Rekindling Intimacy Step-by-Step
53:13 – Talking to Kids About Sex & Consent
56:34 – Parenting in the Age of Social Media
58:30 – Looking Back: Parenting Regrets & Wins
01:01:23 – What Kids Really Need: Safety, Kindness, Connection
01:02:09 – Dr. Eve’s North Star for Parenting Decisions