In this episode, host Madge chats with Elmarie Dercksen, a pastor, author, musician, and mom of three, about the pressure working moms face to stay busy and “hustle” all the time. They unpack how this constant grind affects mental health, relationships, and family life.
Elmarie shares heartfelt insights on slowing down, embracing imperfections and creating space for genuine rest and presence. This episode is a gentle reminder to shift the conversation from nonstop productivity to meaningful connections and peace.
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Timestamps
00:03 — The Need to Prove Worth
00:05 — Impact of Hustle Culture
00:08 — Accepting Help & Overcoming Perfectionism
00:09 — Choosing Harmony Over Perfection
00:11 — Reimagining Rest in Daily Life
00:19 — The Importance of Presence
00:23 — Seasonal Reflection & Rest
00:24 — Teaching Kids to Embrace Boredom
00:25 — Changing the Conversation About Busyness
00:26 — Breathing and Mindfulness
00:29 — A Pact for Meaningful Connections
00:29 — Compassion and Understanding
00:31 — The Final Five Questions
00:32 — Support & Expectations in Parenting
00:34 — Choice in Parenthood
Encouraging children to decide their family journey.
00:36 — Consistency & Joy in Parenting
How steady love builds strong bonds.