In this raw and revealing episode, Clarissa — creator of the Modern Goddess journey — opens up about a truth that many powerful women rarely admit: you can be independent, confident, and self-aware… and still unconsciously center your life around men.
Clarissa breaks down what it truly means to be a male-centered woman — not as a judgment, but as a reflection of emotional wounds, childhood imprints, and generational conditioning.
This episode explores the inner world of women who measure their worth based on male attention, validation, or presence — not because they’re weak, but because it’s what they’ve learned to do in order to survive, belong, and be loved.
Through personal insight, tangible examples, and psychological research, Clarissa guides listeners toward a deeper understanding of themselves — and reminds them: it’s not your fault… but it is your time to heal.
✨ If you've ever felt like you give too much in relationships
✨ If you've waited for someone to choose you before choosing yourself
✨ If you’ve asked yourself: “Why wasn’t I enough?”
…this episode will shift something inside you.
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Have you ever told yourself, “It’s just the gym, I don’t need to do my hair,” or “I’m going on a long trip, no need to look cute”? Maybe you’ve let things slide at the beach, at the pool, or on a lazy Sunday — thinking it doesn’t really matter.
In this episode, Clarissa invites you to question those “exceptions.” Because she’s been there. For years, she believed that not caring about her appearance in certain situations made her practical — even empowered. But deep down, there was something else going on.
She realized that what she called “not caring” was actually a lack of self-worth. She didn’t feel worthy of looking a certain way. She held back from investing in herself. And if someone else did put in the effort? She often judged them — not out of malice, but because it triggered something she hadn’t yet healed.
This conversation isn’t about being high-maintenance. It’s about identity. It’s about choosing to show up as the woman you know you are — not just when it’s easy or convenient, but always.
Because the way you treat your appearance isn’t superficial. It’s a reflection of how deeply you value yourself.
And when that shifts, everything else does too.
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What if the very things keeping you stuck in toxic relationship patterns weren’t obvious red flags… but deeply ingrained beliefs that feel normal?
In this episode, Clarissa shares how a viral Instagram trend—asking ChatGPT “If you were the devil, how would you keep women stuck?”—sparked a powerful reflection. The answer? Shockingly accurate. Because that’s exactly how so many women stay imprisoned in the same cycles… even when they know they want more.
Inside this episode, she unpacks:
— 9 subtle but dangerous thought patterns keeping women from healing
— why “good girl” programming is one of the biggest traps
— the real reason we normalize chaos, struggle, and self-betrayal in love
— how to shift from survival mode to magnetic, empowered connection
If you’ve ever felt like you intellectually know what you want, but emotionally keep going back to less… this one’s for you.
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No one teaches us the real foundations of a thriving relationship — the kind of truths that make love feel lighter, not heavier.
In this episode, Clarissa reveals 7 powerful (and often overlooked) secrets that every woman should know to experience deeper connection and peace in her relationship.
Listeners will discover:
💡 Why stopping the criticism changes everything.
💡 How gratitude — even for the small things — creates emotional closeness.
💡 Why controlling a man or treating him like a child only damages the bond.
💡 And how a man becomes more securely attached the more he invests in you.
Clarissa’s insights are grounded in experience, transformation, and a deep desire to help women build relationships that feel safe, balanced, and deeply fulfilling.
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In this episode, Clarissa dives into one of the most powerful yet misunderstood aspects of love and attraction: feminine and masculine energy.
✨ We all carry both energies within us—but how they show up in our relationships can make or break the connection.
Here’s what you’ll hear in this episode:
⭐ What feminine and masculine energy really mean (beyond gender stereotypes)
⭐ The core traits and expressions of both energies
⭐ How to identify your dominant essence (are you a feminine core or masculine core?)
⭐ What happens when energy polarity is out of balance in a relationship
⭐ How to consciously shift the energy to restore harmony and attraction
Clarissa also opens up about her personal story—how she unintentionally stepped too much into her masculine energy and how she managed to completely shift the dynamic within her current relationship by reconnecting to her feminine core.
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In this episode, Clarissa breaks down one of the most common questions she gets: “Where do I find high value men?”
Spoiler: it starts with not going back to the same places expecting different results.
✨ Here’s what you’ll learn:
🌟 Dismantle the limiting beliefs about high value men not being available out there
🌟 Why your environment reflects (and attracts) the kind of love you experience
🌟 The importance of doing things alone—and owning your own energy
🌟 How to embody the mindset of a high value woman to match a high value man
🌟 A curated list of places where high caliber individuals actually hang out
Stop asking where the good men are—start becoming the kind of woman who naturally meets them.
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In this powerful new episode, Clarissa dives into one of the most requested topics ever: the physical symptoms your body may be showing when you're in the wrong relationship.
After a reel on this exact subject went viral with nearly 6 million views, Clarissa knew it was time to go deeper.
What you’ll hear in this episode:
🌟 What “body rejection” really means—and why it’s not always about the other person being toxic
🌟 The 12 most common physical signs your nervous system might be dysregulated around your partner
🌟 The scientific and energetic reasons behind stress-related symptoms like UTIs, acne, bloating, and insomnia
🌟 Why even “nice” or “normal” relationships can create internal chaos when there’s a mismatch
🌟 How Louise Hay’s teachings connect belief systems, emotional wounds, and physical illness
🌟 When to trust your symptoms—and how to tune into your “wise mind” for guidance
✨ In the second half of the episode, Clarissa gets deeply personal—sharing two vulnerable stories from her own journey:
➤ A period of chronic cystitis that coincided with an emotionally draining relationship
➤ A painful experience of hormonal cystic acne triggered by unresolved emotional tension and feeling trapped in a dynamic that didn’t serve her
These weren’t just skin-deep issues—they were red flags from her own body, shouting: “You’re not safe here.”
If you’ve ever felt sick, disconnected, or like your body was screaming for change while your heart was still holding on… this episode will bring you clarity, comfort, and a whole new level of self-awareness.
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In this episode, Clarissa explores one of the most important topics for building healthy, conscious relationships: attachment styles in adulthood.
She breaks down the three main types—secure, anxious, avoidant—and explains how these patterns, rooted in early childhood experiences, shape our emotional responses in romantic relationships.
You will learn:
✨ What attachment styles are and how they develop
✨ The key traits of anxious and avoidant attachment
✨ Why people with anxious attachment often attract avoidant partners
✨ The toxic push-pull dynamic known as the "anxious-avoidant trap"
✨ Common deactivating strategies of avoidants
✨ How Clarissa personally shifted from an anxious to a more secure style
✨ First steps to start healing and moving toward secure attachment
This episode is a must for anyone who feels stuck in unbalanced relationships or wants to better understand their emotional needs in love.
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In this episode, Clarissa dives deep into one of the most debated questions in the dating world: Is love truly blind?
Inspired by the Netflix show Love Is Blind, she explores the psychology behind attraction, emotional connection, and whether love can really exist without physical chemistry.
Here’s what you’ll discover:
The Love Is Blind Experiment – What happens when people fall in love without ever seeing each other? Is emotional connection enough?
The Power of Projection – Are we really falling for the person… or for the idea of them that we’ve created in our minds?
Science Behind Attraction – How smell, genetics, and brain chemistry influence who we are drawn to (even without realizing it).
Clarissa’s Personal Experience – The times she fell for someone’s potential rather than their reality (and why she doesn’t do that anymore).
Final Verdict – Can love be blind, or do we need to see the full picture before making a lifelong commitment?
Ready to challenge your views on love and attraction? Hit play and let’s talk about it!
✨ Let’s continue the conversation! DM Clarissa on Instagram @moderngoddess.club and share your thoughts!
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We all have those days when everything feels like too much—when self-doubt creeps in, motivation disappears, and even the smallest tasks feel impossible.
In this episode, Clarissa opens up about a powerful realization she recently had about how to survive bad days and break free from the cycle of negativity.
Drawing from her own experiences, she dives into:
✨ Why negative emotions feel so overwhelming in the moment
✨ The sneaky habits that make things worse without you even realizing it
✨ A mindset shift that helped her stop spiraling and regain control
✨Simple but effective ways to shift your energy—even when you don’t feel like it
As someone who has been through this cycle more times than she can count, Clarissa shares what truly works (and what doesn’t) when it comes to pulling yourself out of a low-energy state.
If you’ve ever felt stuck, lost, or consumed by overthinking, this episode will give you the tools to take back your power.
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Turning 30 is a milestone, but it’s also a moment of deep reflection—especially when it comes to love and relationships.
In this special episode of Modern Goddess Podcast, Clarissa shares the 30 most powerful lessons she’s learned about dating, love, and self-worth over the past three decades.
From childhood wounds to the power of feminine energy, from toxic patterns to unlocking high-value love, this episode is packed with wisdom, hard truths, and insights to help you navigate relationships with clarity and confidence.
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In this episode of The Modern Goddess Podcast, Clarissa tackles one of the most common yet damaging modern dating traps: situationships.
For years, she found herself stuck in one, believing that if she just gave a little more, waited a little longer, proved herself a little harder—he would finally commit. But he never did. And that’s when she realized: situationships don’t just waste your time, they destroy your self-worth.
In this episode, she breaks down:
🟒 Why situationships are dangerous (and why so many women settle for them)
🟒 The hidden fears keeping you trapped
🟒 How to shift your mindset and finally walk away for good
This isn’t just about men. It’s about YOU—your standards, your self-worth, and your ability to attract the love you truly desire.
If you’re tired of waiting for a man to “figure it out,” this episode is your wake-up call.
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In this episode of The Modern Goddess Podcast, Clarissa dives into one of the most controversial topics in modern dating: why waiting before getting intimate with a man can shift your entire romantic experience.
With raw honesty and personal experience, Clarissa explores:
🟒 Why hookup culture made women believe waiting is "old-fashioned"—and why that belief is holding you back
🟒 How biology, chemistry, and ancient evolutionary dynamics still influence attraction and commitment today
🟒 The real reason men lose interest after sex—and how to make them crave you instead
🟒 Why sleeping with a man too soon doesn’t “ruin” your worth—but it does alter the way he sees and pursues you
🟒 How to step into your feminine power and create relationships where men desire to earn your presence
If you’ve ever wondered why some men pull away after getting what they want, this episode will give you the clarity (and strategy) you need.
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In this episode of The Modern Goddess Podcast, Clarissa opens up about one of the most damaging yet widely accepted relationship patterns: toxic relationships.
From emotionally manipulative partners to full-blown abusive dynamics, Clarissa shares her personal journey through multiple toxic relationships and how they became the catalyst for her deepest transformation.
She dives into:
🟒 What makes a relationship truly toxic (beyond the obvious red flags)
🟒 How childhood wounds & subconscious beliefs keep you stuck in unhealthy dynamics
🟒 Why just “leaving” isn’t enough—true freedom requires deep inner work
🟒 How to shift your mindset & quantum leap into a new reality where toxicity is no longer an option
If you’ve ever felt trapped in a love that’s draining rather than fulfilling, this episode is for you.
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In the very first episode of The Modern Goddess Podcast, Clarissa, founder of the Modern Goddess Club—a global community of nearly 150,000 women—dives into a fundamental truth: your love life is shaped by your beliefs.
Why do we keep attracting the wrong men? Why do we settle for less than we deserve? It all starts with limiting beliefs—deeply ingrained thoughts that dictate our reality, often without us even realizing it.
Clarissa breaks down:
🔸 What limiting beliefs are and how they form
🔸 How they keep us trapped in toxic cycles (hello, emotionally unavailable men)
🔸 How to identify and dismantle them for good
Through personal experience, psychology-backed insights, and transformative journaling exercises, this episode is your first step toward rewriting your love story.
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