In this powerful and heartfelt conversation, dating expert Chaya Garcia shares her transformative journey from attracting toxic relationships to building a marriage grounded in wholeness, peace, and mutual growth.

Through her I LOVE ME MORE Challenge, Chaya helps women heal from emotional wounds, recognise red flags, and rediscover their self-worth — so they can attract love that feels safe, secure, and true.

Suppose you’ve ever felt stuck in repeating relationship patterns or unsure how to love from a place of confidence. In that case, this episode will guide you back to the most important relationship you’ll ever have: the one with yourself.

Key Topics

• Healing emotional patterns and past traumas
• How self-love attracts healthy relationships
• Recognising red flags and setting boundaries
• The role of the inner child in romantic choices
• Shifting from co-dependency to conscious love
• Daily rituals that nurture strong marriages

Powerful Takeaways

• Self-love is the foundation of every lasting relationship.
• Healing your inner child transforms how you love.
• Red flags appear when we ignore our intuition.
• True happiness starts within, not in your partner.
• Wholeness attracts wholeness — not neediness.

Memorable Quotes

“Pain is communication.”
“Love grows over time.”
“Don’t look for the right partner — become the right one.”

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Chaya and Her Mission

03:00 The Importance of Self-Discovery Before Dating

05:29 Taking Risks for Personal Growth

08:34 The Journey of Healing from Toxic Relationships

11:08 Understanding Pain and Its Role in Healing

13:59 Red Flags in Relationships and Self-Love

19:03 The Three Pillars of Self-Love: Forgiveness, Protection, Acceptance

25:50 Self-Love as a Foundation

28:16 The Role of Love in Marriage

32:28 Personal Responsibility for Happiness

37:04 Daily Rituals for a Strong Marriage

42:10 Choosing the Right Partner

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/CU6AaQGVQlg 

Connect with Chaya Garcia

🌐 www.ILoveMeMore.love
💗 Join the Challenge (May 27–29): www.epiclovechallenge.com
🎁 Free Dating Advice Videos & Downloads: www.marriedin2025.com
📞 Book a Call: www.booking.chayagarcia.com

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