When life throws you a curveball, which of these sounds most like your reaction?” A) “Typical — it’s always me that this happens to!” B) “Right, that’s annoying — but I’ll sort it out.” C) “I knew it — I can’t catch a break.” D) “Maybe there’s a reason this happened — what can I learn from it?” Teaching Most of us start in A or C — and we don’t even realise we’ve slipped into what I call the victim mindset. That’s when life feels like it’s happening to you instead of for you. The car breaks d...