If you're not successful, you can't coach. It's wrong and it's right. Michael Phelps has a coach guys. Some people are natural born teachers and coaches. Soldiers are not generals. But they want to be Yoda. They are not and they force it. Mindfulness means stop talking motivated by your perceived competition and do you. The poor are more generous because there's no competition in their minds. But to have more, some are squashing new soldiers and not playing well with others. The millionaires are not immune to pretentious condescension and envy, creating hostile environments. Why? Well, they're not even 30 yet and hear why that scientifically matters from a qualified person who knows more than armchair psychology.