Have you ever felt like you’re dating the same person over and over—just in a different body?

In this episode of Mind Matters with Dr. Nina, we explore the phenomenon of Déjà Vu Dating, in which we unknowingly repeat old relationship patterns.

Dr. Nina breaks down different types of toxic relationship dynamics, including:

• The Unavailable Partner – emotionally distant, echoing childhood caregivers.
• The Smotherer – overwhelming and needing constant reassurance.
• The Cheater – triggering past betrayals and trust issues.
• The Critic – eroding self-worth through constant judgment.
• The Rescuer – trying to fix what was broken in childhood.

By uncovering the psychological roots of these patterns, Dr. Nina helps listeners see why they might be drawn to certain types of partners—and how to make healthier choices. She also identifies what a supportive relationship looks like, with a surprisingly example of genuine love, respect, and mutual support.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Why are we often drawn to partners who resemble significant childhood figures?
• How repetition compulsion keeps us stuck in unhealthy relationships.
• The emotional roots of toxic relationship dynamics.
• How self-awareness and reflection are key to breaking free from negative cycles.
• What defines a healthy relationship—and how to cultivate one.

Key Takeaways:

1. Many are drawn to partners reminiscent of significant figures from childhood.
2. Repetition compulsion leads us to repeat unhealthy relationship patterns.
3. Emotional unavailability often stems from past experiences with distant caregivers.
4. Smotherers may reflect a need for constant reassurance due to past neglect.
5. Cheating can feel familiar to those who have experienced betrayal before.
6. Critics project their insecurities onto their partners, eroding self-worth.
7. Rescuers often try to fix what was broken in childhood.
8. Awareness of relationship patterns is the first step to change.
9. Healthy relationships require mutual respect, support, and trust.
10. Defining a healthy relationship involves recognizing both individual and shared lives.

Resources Mentioned:

• The Binge Cure by Dr. Nina Savelle-Rocklin
• Learn more about Dr. Nina’s work and The Binge Cure Method at drninainc.com

Follow Dr. Nina: https://linktr.ee/dr.nina

If you’ve ever wondered why you keep attracting the same kind of partner, this episode is for you!

Tune in, take notes, and start creating healthier, more fulfilling relationships.

And remember: Your mind matters!

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