The legend himself joins me this episode to talk about some of the body of his works. I talk about being MIA and going through a difficult time.
In this episode, Miles and Duey Freeman explore the complexities of personal challenges, attachment theory, and the importance of male figures in healing. They discuss the impact of fragmentation in relationships, the role of addiction in emotional struggles, and the therapeutic benefits of working with horses. The conversation emphasizes the fluid nature of healing and the significance of connection and contact in fostering emotional well-being. In this conversation, Miles and Duey explore the intricate dynamics of animal interaction, particularly with horses, and how these principles can be applied to human relationships and therapy. They discuss the importance of building trust through incremental steps, the unique communication methods of horses, and the challenges men face in the therapy world. The conversation also delves into the impact of patriarchy on mental health and the growing epidemic of male loneliness, emphasizing the need for authentic connections and the integration of various therapeutic modalities.
00:00 Introduction and Personal Struggles
03:03 The Impact of Loss and Grief
05:53 Father Wounds and Male Mentorship
08:44 Attachment Theory and Its Evolution
11:48 Fragmented vs. Integrated Attachment
14:16 Addiction and the Need for Contact
16:57 The Role of Food, Touch, and Movement
20:03 Fluidity in Attachment and Relationships
35:47 The Importance of Relational Contact
38:07 Addiction and Predictability in Relationships
39:38 Contingent Eye Contact and Attachment
43:04 Connecting with Horses: A Therapeutic Approach
45:12 Understanding Horse Behavior and Communication
55:04 The Art of Therapy and Personal Growth
01:05:26 Integrating Dance and Self-Expression
01:06:44 The Concept of Wholeness and Health
01:08:08 Authenticity in Relationships
01:10:10 Masculinity and Therapy
01:13:15 Celebrating Differences in Gender
01:14:00 The Crisis of Male Therapists
01:16:26 The Nice Guy Archetype and Male Vulnerability
01:19:31 Patriarchy and Objectification
01:23:00 Isolation and Mental Health in Men
01:25:50 Healthy Masculinity and Connection
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