You would think that the struggles you go through are to make your life miserable, but when you have made it through the struggle and see it for what it is. You find yourself Blessed because of your struggles, that's what gave you strength and courage to live your life Boldly. It's many different things that you will see in the Dark Night that will hurt your heart. Know that it's the only way to separate you from the world and it's people, to bring you closer to Our Heavenly Father and his people. For some you will find out that you are the only one from your family that is his people. Stay Strong You're Chosen.