
Are women really not attracted to nice guys? In this episode of the MFM Podcast, Dan, Michele, and Shav reunite to break down the real psychology behind attraction, dating, and why so many men and women misunderstand each other.
We dive into:
🎙 Why “nice guys” often finish last — and how alpha energy flips the script
🎙 The dating myths women believe (and why they unknowingly chase the wrong men)
🎙 What men get wrong about showing interest — and why chasing kills attraction
🎙 Why women stay stuck in toxic cycles and compare new partners to their exes
🎙 The brutal truth about hypergamy, status, and why women want to “level up” in relationships
🎙 Do men actually prefer to date younger women?
🎙 How Michele’s bad Bumble date led to meeting Shav and Dan
⏰ Timestamps:
0:01:00 – Does a man have to be more into a woman or vice versa?
0:07:05 – Are women turned off by men who are too into them?
0:07:42 – What happened when Dan dated Michele’s friend (and took Michele’s advice)
0:09:29 – Michele explains what women do when a man isn’t an alpha male
0:10:38 – Reacting to spicy TikTok comments
0:21:00 – Do women go through a period where they want to be alone?
0:29:58 – Situationships and the current state of dating
0:37:26 – Do women cause men to treat them badly by rewarding toxic behavior?
0:39:59 – Shav compares attraction to golf (yes, golf!)
0:49:14 – Do men only like younger women?