Being single definitely has its pros and cons. Dating in the 21st century is like participating in the Olympics with no prior training lol. When you’re single you have time to discover yourself but no one addresses the cons like those sudden waves of loneliness and longing. It’s even getting more difficult to be happily single and still be searching at the same time- it’s becoming a pick a side reality. So let’s get into it. We all have standards and I’ve come to understand that the consequence of having standards is being okay with waiting. But have you ever asked yourself: How do we approach sex when we’re single? Are you your type’s type? Would you choose you? Do you know who you are? If not then how do you expect to know what you need ? Have you ever taken time out to address your inner self and heal ? Partly Being single is not just waiting for the right one it is also taking time to become the right one but there is so much more to life than just searching.