The Universe loves to test me. Over and over. And honestly? I’m tired. But lately, I’ve been learning to see these “tests” differently not as punishments, but as opportunities. Opportunities to recognize patterns, to pause before reacting, and to choose differently. Because growth doesn’t mean never messing up; it means realizing you don’t have to keep reacting the same way. Sometimes I fail spectacularly. I say the wrong thing, I don’t set the boundary soon enough, or...
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The Universe loves to test me. Over and over. And honestly? I’m tired. But lately, I’ve been learning to see these “tests” differently not as punishments, but as opportunities. Opportunities to recognize patterns, to pause before reacting, and to choose differently. Because growth doesn’t mean never messing up; it means realizing you don’t have to keep reacting the same way. Sometimes I fail spectacularly. I say the wrong thing, I don’t set the boundary soon enough, or...
Forgiving Failure Facilitates Freedom Forgiveness sounds noble and wise—until you’re the one holding the hurt. Everyone says forgiveness is for you, not the other person. I know that’s true. And yet, when you’ve been betrayed, abused, or abandoned, forgiving can feel like letting someone off the hook. Like their pain-free life is a reward for what they did to you. I’ve lived that tug-of-war. I’ve clung to anger like armor, believing my resentment was the only way to make someone pay. But the ...
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The Universe loves to test me. Over and over. And honestly? I’m tired. But lately, I’ve been learning to see these “tests” differently not as punishments, but as opportunities. Opportunities to recognize patterns, to pause before reacting, and to choose differently. Because growth doesn’t mean never messing up; it means realizing you don’t have to keep reacting the same way. Sometimes I fail spectacularly. I say the wrong thing, I don’t set the boundary soon enough, or...
