We’d always planned to do an episode about our decision to stay living in a small town after we came out. This is not it. We scrapped two full-length episodes in favour of this one – a third attempt that ended up being a conversation about why it is we just couldn’t seem to have that small town conversation. We stayed for good reasons. And we left, after 8 years, for us. Sometimes you don’t need to relive a laundry list of reasons to go. Sometimes wanting to leave is enough.