I've talked with several other YOPD wives and one thing that I hear over and over again is that our husbands don't know what's going on with us. Why? Perhaps it's not wanting to burden him with our own feelings or bring any negativity into an already tense situation. Every couple is different so I wanted to take this opportunity to verbally relay some of those thoughts and feelings we have towards our husbands and towards the PD so we can all have this open dialogue as care partners with our husbands. I wrote an open letter to all the husbands with YOPD, including my own, as a collection of thoughts from us wives. Fellow wives, I hope I do right by you. And husbands, when you're ready, listen up.