Ever wondered how to quickly and easily change your spouse?  Articles involved in the making of this episode:  Keys to Happier Marriage Include Not Demanding Change From Your Spouse, Psychologists Say https://newsroom.ucla.edu/releases/Keys-to-Happier-Marriage-Include-652   Andrew Christensen Neil S. Jacobson Reconcilable Differences https://a.co/d/h9iAFv6   When Men Batter Women, Gottman https://a.co/d/bJLDgl   How to change your husband in four easy stepshttps://www.favoritefamilies.com/how-to-change-your-husband-in-4-simple-steps/ Loveatfirstfight.com Bruce Muzik https://www.loveatfirstfight.com/relationship-advice/communication-skills/how-to-get-your-spouse-change/   Very well mind.com How Much Should You Try to Change Your Spouse or Partner?   7 Step Process if You Want to Influence Your Spouse to Change  https://www.couplesinstitute.com/7-step-process-if-you-want-to-influence-your-spouse-to-change-tx/?srsltid=AfmBOoozjGJKPhgvfRQawRhUlKF4ySLkBXHtWaGj_YDjr4HDAZ9g7U9q   Focus on the family Mike Becthle The Love Prescription, Gottman  http://www.amazon.com/dp/0143136631/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20 Hooked: The Brain Science on How Casual Sex Affects Humans http://www.amazon.com/dp/080241835X/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20 Leave a 5* review and help us destroy the Gottman's podcast.  X account: @marriagebestpod Email: marriageisthebest@yahoo.com Leave us a voicemail: 612-361-9615 Gottman TED Talk: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=nBN9zG1JNPg&pp=ygUbVW5zb2x2YWJsZSBjb25kbGljdCBnb3R0bWFu Resources:Counseling Resource (East and South Metro MN and telehealth): https://counselingcare.us Parenting Great Kids with Dr Meg Meeker: https://open.spotify.com/show/6DXzVlmAHrYcvClM42E0C7?si=_2yZt3fFRMKUuxbO9-ku6w The Ramsey Show:  https://open.spotify.com/show/5exfRPDNCBHmntEkJrlLmX?si=c3210281b47a4500 Resources: Preparing for Marriage, Rainey:  http://www.amazon.com/dp/0764215507/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20 7 Principles for Making Marriage Work, Gottman: http://www.amazon.com/dp/B083JKQPVQ/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20 How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It, Stosny http://www.amazon.com/dp/B006NTH4UQ/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20 Hold Me Tight, Johnson http://www.amazon.com/dp/B084G9QFZY/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20 Getting the Love You Want, Hendricks & Hunt http://www.amazon.com/dp/B07M8D751C/ref=nosim?tag=marriageisthe-20 If your marriage is in trouble, please reach out to a qualified professional in your area. If you or someone you know is in an abusive marriage, please reach out to the national hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or text "START" to 88788. Marriage is the Best but it can also be unsafe and if you or a loved one are unsafe reaching out for help can be the first step toward healing. God bless.