This week, we’re hashing out the meaning and the messes behind our recent anniversary gifts. Gerard makes a strong impression with something silky and then Jessie (accidentally) breaks his heart with a failed scavenger hunt.  Thanks to Grounded (our Marriage Summit!) for making this episode possible. ♥︎ Click right here to join us in Long Beach on Feb 20-22, 2020 and head to our site for more info about how to support the show! QUICK BITES: We stand by our warning about Summer weddings (and backsweat).  The backstory about our flower failure is blooming yet again. The list of anniversary materials is helpful when you’re searching for the perfect gift. Gerard treats Jessie to the most luxurious way to sleep. We talked about her lost pillowcase earlier this season and now thankfully the silk situation has been solved. Jessie nearly burns Gerard’s face off with a new habanero “exfoliator.” Gerard’s hot sauce habit is something that jessie always appreciates at dinner time. Jessie wonders if she inspired the recent suitcase shenanigans by griping about Gerard’s unclaimed denim jacket.  Birthdays (or really any special occasion) can be sticky situations when you come from different frames of reference... We’ve discussed this in the past but it remains to be a challenge! Trigger Questions: What is your fondest anniversary memory together? Have you ever had a “date night fail” or special occasion gone wrong? What is your favorite errand to run with your partner?