You're sitting there with your coffee getting cold, scrolling through job ads that used to make your heart race.
But now? Nothing.
Just this heavy feeling in your chest because the work that once fit you perfectly feels like it belongs to someone else entirely.
I've been exactly where you are right now. After my daughter was born, I had twenty years of marketing experience under my belt—work I absolutely loved. But when I sat down to go back, it hit me like a truck. I had changed so much, but I hadn't updated my work to match who I'd become as a mother.
And here's what I realized sitting on my bedroom floor two and a half years ago, feeling completely lost: your comfort zone isn't keeping you safe. It's quietly stealing your dreams, one "maybe next year" at a time.
Why staying comfortable is actually the most dangerous thing you can do (for yourself and your family)I talk about how we tell ourselves we're being practical, being smart, waiting for the right time. But really? We're just scared. And while we're waiting to feel ready, our kids are growing up and we're staying stuck.
The inner work that actually changes everythingI share exactly what I did when I realized I couldn't keep living this way—the journaling, the reading, the coaching that helped me see what I really wanted. Not what I thought I should want, but what actually lit me up inside.
How I landed my dream job in a field I'd never worked inThis part still gives me chills. I flew back to Australia with my baby, no job, no apartment—just this deep knowing that I was on the right path. And six months later, I was working in corporate social responsibility, doing work that stretched me every single day.
Your next step (because I know you're ready)I give you simple, doable things you can start this week. Not overwhelming stuff—just gentle pushes that will get you moving toward work that actually fits who you are now.
"If your old career doesn't fit anymore, it's not because something's broken. It's because you have evolved."
"Most people don't regret the things they did. They regret what they didn't do."
"You have to move before readiness shows up."
Come find me:Join our free community at MamaWhatsNext.com where you'll meet other mamas figuring out their what's next, just like you.
The book that's changing my life right now:"It's Your Dream" by Simon Squibb—seriously, go get this. His TikTok is incredible too.
Need someone to walk beside you?I offer one-on-one coaching because I know what it's like to feel completely lost and have to start over. I've done it multiple times, across four countries, often as a single mom. I see your potential even when you can't. hey@mamawhatsnext.com
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