As we approach the end of the current liturgical year, the Church prepares us with such messages to remind us about being prepared for the end, be it for the end of the world or the end of our lives. We do not know when, but what is most certain is that it will happen at a time we do not know or expect. She reviews us today in the gospel of the mass that Heaven is our proper place, our home and our final destination. That is the case, at least in theory. However, through the story the Lord narrates--where he compares heaven to a dinner in the kingdom of God, invitations to that feast, excuses not to make it to the party, the Lord wants his party hall be filled--he warns us about the obstacles in the way that this longing to make it to the feast is waylaid.