In this episode of Luma & Bloom, Nic, Kate, and Lainey dive into the messy, beautiful, and sometimes exhausting world of modern dating—exploring not just the highs and lows of dating apps, but the deeper patterns that shape how we love and connect. From navigating red flags versus green flags to questioning the idea of soulmates, they unpack how our past relationships influence our present choices—and how we can approach dating from a place of self-awareness, growth, and empowerment inste...
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In this episode of Luma & Bloom, Nic, Kate, and Lainey dive into the messy, beautiful, and sometimes exhausting world of modern dating—exploring not just the highs and lows of dating apps, but the deeper patterns that shape how we love and connect. From navigating red flags versus green flags to questioning the idea of soulmates, they unpack how our past relationships influence our present choices—and how we can approach dating from a place of self-awareness, growth, and empowerment inste...
Shannon Vanderlinde - Are You a Chameleon? The Hidden Cost of People-Pleasing | Luma & Bloom w Nic and Kate Ep.49
Luma & Bloom
1 hour 44 minutes
2 months ago
Shannon Vanderlinde - Are You a Chameleon? The Hidden Cost of People-Pleasing | Luma & Bloom w Nic and Kate Ep.49
Are you constantly shifting to match the people around you? Saying yes when you want to say no? Swallowing your feelings to keep the peace? In this episode of Luma & Bloom, we’re unpacking all things trauma, the subtle, exhausting survival strategy of people-pleasing, masking, and self-abandonment. Shannon Vanderlinde shares raw and honest stories about living life on autopilot, performing for acceptance, and the emotional cost of becoming whoever other people needed her to be. From...
Luma & Bloom
In this episode of Luma & Bloom, Nic, Kate, and Lainey dive into the messy, beautiful, and sometimes exhausting world of modern dating—exploring not just the highs and lows of dating apps, but the deeper patterns that shape how we love and connect. From navigating red flags versus green flags to questioning the idea of soulmates, they unpack how our past relationships influence our present choices—and how we can approach dating from a place of self-awareness, growth, and empowerment inste...