In this episode, we unpack a tough moment where an adult volunteer lost their cool and screamed at student volunteers during a kids’ program. We talk about what that kind of behavior teaches kids about authority, power, and how they see themselves. We share some of our own stories, too - times when we had to figure out how to stand up for ourselves or when we didn’t. The conversation also dives into that tricky line between calling something “trauma” versus just a lived experience, and why it matters how we talk about it. At the heart of it all: how we, as adults, can model respect, healthy communication, and the kind of support that helps the next generation find their voice.