The Bedroom Power Struggle: Who Controls Desire?
Desire isn’t just about sex — it’s about power, closeness, safety, rejection, longing… and everything in between.
In this episode, we unpack one of the most common — and most ignored — dynamics in long-term relationships:
When one person wants sex more, and the other… doesn’t.
Inside this conversation, we explore:
Why couples fall into “high-desire vs. low-desire” roles
How the illusion of power plays out in the bedroom
Why the person who wants less isn’t always in control
How the high-desire partner often carries emotional weight, silently
Real stories from couples navigating mismatched desire
Why the body shuts down under pressure
How to rebuild intimacy without turning everything into performance
Tiny shifts that help desire return naturally (no heavy “work” needed)
Whether you’re the one who initiates…the one who avoids…or the one who’s just confused —
This episode helps you understand what’s really happening beneath the surface…so you can reconnect without shame, defense, or blame.
It’s honest.It’s tender.
And it might just help you understand your partner — and yourself — in a brand-new way.
Tune in. Your relationship will thank you.
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