When Gratitude Becomes Another Chore

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Love on the Autism Spectrum - Honest Guidance for Neurodivergent Relationships & Emotional Healing

Barbara (Blaze) Lazarony, LMFT

68 episodes

10 hours ago

Love on the Autism Spectrum with Barbara (Blaze) Lazarony, LMFT--Honest Conversations for Neurodivergent Love, Healing & Connection

Love on the Autism Spectrum is the go-to podcast for neurodivergent adults, leaders, and couples navigating relationships, emotional burnout, and self-understanding. Hosted by licensed therapist and neurodivergent coach Blaze Lazarony, each episode blends trauma-informed care, nervous system wisdom, and lived experience.

If you're autistic, ADHD, AuDHD, or living with complex trauma—this space is for you. Blaze speaks the language of neurodivergent intimacy with warmth, clarity, and compassion.

Each episode offers:

Practical tools for navigating shutdowns, masking, and relationship challenges

Nervous system support for emotional regulation and deeper self-trust

Permission to unmask and live fully in your body, relationships, and truth

🎧 Therapy Insights Tuesdays dive into the emotional heart of neurodivergent life—relationship struggles, communication disconnects, and nervous system overload.

🎧 Waking Up Neurodivergent Wednesdays celebrate the raw, funny, and freeing moments of embracing your true self.

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When Gratitude Becomes Another Chore | Ep 68.mp3

Love on the Autism Spectrum - Honest Guidance for Neurodivergent Relationships & Emotional Healing

12 minutes 38 seconds

4 days ago

When Gratitude Becomes Another Chore | Ep 68.mp3

Episode 68: When Gratitude Becomes Another Chore

In this storytelling episode, Blaze shares a composite client story about gratitude fatigue — the moment when expressing thankfulness feels more like pressure than peace. Through the lens of neurodivergent masking and emotional labor, this episode explores how authenticity, not performance, reconnects us to true appreciation.

You’ll Hear:

A story about a client who performed gratitude to belong.

Why “should be thankful” can trigger shame and shutdown.

How to notice gratitude as a body feeling, not a social rule.

A gentle nightly reflection practice to invite rest and truth.

Emotional Takeaway:

You don’t have to feel grateful to deserve rest. Gratitude will return when your system feels safe again.

Read the companion blog: “The Hidden Labor of Gratitude in ND Relationships” at LoveOnTheAutismSpectrum.com.

Explore: Book a Clarity & Connection Call or learn about Blaze’s book, Unmasked Self-Acceptance: A Year of Gentle Support.

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Explore more tools, relationship guidance, and weekly blog posts at:

🌐 www.LoveOnTheAutismSpectrum.com

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📸 @BlazeLazarony

✨ Come for the real talk. Stay for the support. You’re not alone here.

**This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care, diagnosis, or treatment.

Barbara (Blaze) Lazarony, LMFT, is licensed in California. Listening does not create a therapeutic relationship or imply individualized advice.

Any tools or techniques shared are for general education only and do not guarantee results. Participation in educational offerings does not establish a client-therapist relationship.

All client examples are fictional and used solely for illustrative purposes.

If you’re in crisis or experiencing a mental health emergency, call 988 or contact local emergency services.**