If a city doesn’t work for women, it doesn’t work for anyone.” In this powerful episode, Jesselina and Anahita unpack the invisible gender biases built into our cities—design flaws that don’t just inconvenience women, they actively exclude them.

From unsafe college walkways and inaccessible public transport to public bathrooms that ignore menstruation, this conversation lays bare the very real consequences of male-default urban planning. And no—it’s not just about safety. It’s about ambition, leisure, and the basic freedom to move through public space without fear.

Rooted in personal stories, data, and lived experience across Delhi, Kathmandu, and LA, this episode reveals why gender-inclusive cities aren’t a luxury—they’re a necessity for a truly sustainable world.

Clickable Timestamps

(02:39) Why sustainable cities are more personal than we think

(03:50)Cities are designed for men, by men.

(06:46) Jesselina’s NLUD story: how a 10-minute walk became a daily risk

(10:44) Public toilets that fail women (and everyone else)

(12:41) Mobility, class, and why public transport isn’t built for all

(16:02)When a dinner and pickleball plan turns into a safety negotiation

(20:04) Fake phone calls, pepper spray, and the exhausting mental load

(23:48) Why women avoid parks—and how Kathmandu got it right

(28:40) Girls at Dhabas: Pakistan’s story of reclaiming the right to exist

(30:23) Crash tests, cold offices, and other everyday design failures

(32:43) Small wins: inclusive bathrooms in Benares & Mumbai

(37:55) Breastfeeding, Colonialism and the gendering of public space

(42:33) Learning independence through metros, autos, and quiet rebellions

(48:03) Superstition, public space, and being shut out for having a period