You’ve done the work, stayed in no contact, and now you’re ready to reach out—but what do you actually say? In this thoughtful episode, Coach Adrian shares how to reconnect with your ex in a way that feels natural, not needy. Whether it’s a simple text, a handwritten letter, or a casual message, the key is to communicate from a place of growth—not desperation.
You’ll learn how to craft your first message post-breakup with empathy, sincerity, and emotional intelligence. And most importantly, you’ll learn how to honor your own transformation so your ex sees the change—not just hears about it.
In this episode:
What needs to happen before you send that first message
Why there’s no one-size-fits-all script to win your ex back
When a letter works better than a text—and what to say
How to reinitiate contact without triggering pressure or defensiveness
The mindset that makes you more attractive than any words can
🎁 BONUS: Check the episode notes for free tools to reclaim your power and make no contact work the right way.
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