
When you lose a child, everything you thought you knew about yourself suddenly feels… uncertain. Am I still a mom if my baby isn’t here? Who am I when the world looks at me differently? How do I live in a body and a life that no longer feel like mine?
These are the haunting questions so many bereaved mothers ask—but few ever say out loud.
In this episode of Loud About Loss, I share my own struggle with the identity crisis that followed losing my daughter Gracie, and how grief reshaped every part of how I saw myself. And while the world—and even our own inner voices—try to define us by our loss, the truth is something entirely different.
Piece by piece, through story and Scripture, we’ll uncover where your true identity is found. Spoiler alert: it’s not in your loss, your circumstances, or what others whisper about you. Your identity is secure in Christ Jesus—and it’s unshakable.
💛 In this episode you’ll discover:
Why grief makes you question who you are
How the world tries to label bereaved moms—and why it’s a lie
The surprising place your identity is actually anchored
Practical ways to live boldly in who Christ says you are
If you’ve ever wondered who you are now that your baby is gone, this episode will remind you: you are still a mother, you are still loved, and your story is far from over.
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