The anxious and the avoidant dance serves a great purpose in each of the participants lives. All books that talk about attachment styles, point to the fact that an avoidant will bring in an anxious and vice versa as they need each other in order to experience their attachment style in a way that is uncomfortable so then they can work to shift out of it to something like a secure attachment style that is much more befitting for our nervous system to be predominately in a state of rest and digest and ease our anxiety.As always thank you SO much for taking the time to read, watch and comment.Forever grateful for this opportunity and all of you for taking the time wether it is a minute or the full thing:)With all my love and gratitude always,anna