“The biggest driver of happiness is making the choice to be happy. And that’s something you can change.” — Lisa Walker

What happens when everything you thought defined happiness—success, control, doing it all—suddenly falls apart?

In this raw and empowering episode, I’m joined by Lisa Walker, co-founder of Eir Women, whose life turned upside down after the sudden loss of her husband. What followed wasn’t a crisis—it was a conscious reinvention.

We explore how midlife can be a sacred turning point. Lisa shares how choosing joy (even in grief), releasing control, and embracing silliness helped her rebuild from the inside out. From pole dancing at 51 to quiet moments of presence, her story is a testament to the truth that happiness isn’t found—it’s chosen.

If you’ve been feeling the low hum of pressure, like life should feel better than it does, this conversation will meet you right there—and invite you into your own expansion.

Today on Limitless:

- The Invisible Load of Midlife: Why so many high-performing women feel overwhelmed—and how to name it.

- Controlling to Coasting: Lisa’s realization that striving for the “perfect” life was actually breaking her.

- Choosing Joy After Loss: How grief cracked her open—and joy became the rebellion.

- The Year of Yes: Why saying “yes” to fun, risk, and presence changed everything.

- Happiness Is an Inside Job: The science (and soul) behind choosing happiness—regardless of circumstance.

- Letting Go of the Mask: Why control, perfectionism, and pleasing aren’t personality traits—they’re patterns.

- Living for You, Not the Checklist: Reimagining success on your terms in the second half of life.

Connect with Lisa:

Learn more about Eir Women: eirwomen.com.au

Lisa's Instagram: @walker_on_the_wild_side

Work with Fiona: If this conversation stirred something in you and you’re ready to stop spiraling, stop proving, and start leading from trust and grounded clarity—I’d love to support you.

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Or reach out directly: fiona@fionawalshconsulting.com

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