Marriage can be the most beautiful mirror for our own healing. For years, I tried to change my husband, only to realize the real work started within me. In this episode, I open up about the five powerful shifts that changed everything in my marriage—five ways I learned to love my husband better by first learning to love myself.

These shifts came through deep inner work: releasing resentment that had quietly built up over decades, rewriting the stories I’d been telling myself about who my husband was, taking responsibility for my own needs, and learning to see him through a lens of gratitude instead of lack. The most life-changing part? Reconnecting with myself—my body, my feminine energy, and the woman I’d lost along the way. When I stopped trying to change him and chose to look inward instead, our entire relationship transformed.

You’ll hear honest, heartfelt reflections (like how resentment really just “poisons from the inside out”) and the mindset changes that brought more intimacy, play, and peace into a 33-year marriage. These are the kinds of lessons that don’t just change a relationship—they change your life.

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Ready to experience this kind of transformation in your own marriage? Join me for my upcoming 3-day workshop where we’ll release resentment, rewrite your stories, and open your heart to deeper connection. Save your seat here: https://deanna-herrin.mykajabi.com/resentmentresetlive

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