In this episode, I discuss my feelings about the sexual connection to BDSM and answer some questions posed to me by a friend about my asexuality. I dive into what gives me the feelings of intimacy out of the BDSM lifestyle and what constitutes a good time for me.  The shameless plug I mentioned is to @deviantsdelight on Instagram. Please give this wonderful guy a look, I've rarely had a more pleasant experience with a toymaker.