(Beauty’s in the Eye of the Beholder Series) You have it all, a successful career, great family life and you’re the man to your peers. There is a secret in the mirror though... A lady staring back at you every day, in your reflection.    Get over the hump every Wednesday with a new "Heartbeat in Relationship Conversation" episode. Join the Diversity Duo for all the feels and then ask yourself, “Do I judge a book by its cover?” #thediversityduo #LFLPodcast    The honorable Tracy Nadzieja (pronounced Na-jae-ah) was appointed to the Maricopa County (AZ) Superior Court bench in 2018, becoming the first transgender judicial officer in Arizona and only the third in the United States.   Definition of Judicial Officer: A justice for the peace, magistrate, or judge or any other officer of the court. https://thelawdictionary.org/judicial-officer/   To appreciate Tracy, we must first know a little about Tom. So, our interview takes us on the journey of Tom's career and successes, but most importantly, we learn about what Tom was willing to sacrifice, because he no longer wanted to just see Tracy in his reflection.    Tracy goes on to tell us that the ambitions of Tom weren't the same as what Tracy's would become. Next, she goes into detail about how an unsung hero would be the key component of Tracy's milestone achievement.    We then find out where Tracy is today, personally. How did her law firm take the news? What did her spouse do and what if anything is their relationship now?    Dr. Loren Michaels Harris asks some compelling questions about the relationship and legacy of Tom and how that effects Tracy.   This episode is compelling and insightful on so many levels. It's our first episode with a judge and well worth the listen, even with some technical difficulties.    Cowboy Jax opens up to us in an on-air confession that may be shocking and unexpected to our listeners but has a heartfelt message of vulnerability that will leave you moved.