(Family Series) What message are we conveying by pointing the finger at generations of our children, call them "snowflakes," and send them off into the real world with their belongings in a trash bag? Can the comfort to change the world come in a case?  Get over the hump every Wednesday with a new "Heartbeat in Relationship Conversation" episode. Join the Diversity Duo for all the feels and then ask yourself, “Do I judge a book by its cover?” "I'm a dad who happens to be gay" says our guest, Rob Scheer (U.S. Veteran). Ponder that for a moment! Then feel the emotion or the frustration of why anyone, especially a parent, would be compelled to want to say anything about their sexuality. Well, our guest rarely has time to say that in his household because he and his husband are too busy being at PTA meetings, football games, and raising great children like the "chicken whisper." Rob is both candid and respectfully pushes back on statistics of the LGBTQ+ community, especially those centered on parents. Can you guess which ones? He takes us freely inside his own moral compass, his .com past to this .org present and explains how one of his children caused him to look in the mirror and make over 100,000 children thankful that he did. Make no mistake about it, our guest Rob Scheer pulls no punches and has no apologies for believing that blaming the system is not a get out of responsibility free card. What does he have to say about his foster care journey and how does his quote, "our children" pertain to you? Rob hosts the #1 podcast “Fostering Change” centered on foster care and more. Over 150 million people and counting, know his family’s name and their journey. How did all this happen? The end of the episode is like none we've ever had before and Dr. Loren Michaels Harris’ tendered heart confession, simply was a moving moment for #thediversityduo. How will it all move you?