
You found out you’re anxiously (or avoidantly) attached—probably from a TikTok. Cool. Now what the hell do you do with that?
This no-BS episode is for anyone tired of wearing their attachment style like a label and ready to actually shift it. I’m sharing my story as a recovering avoidant, plus the three simple steps you can start today to move from triggered to secure:
1. Discovery + learning
2. Noticing how it shows up IRL
3. Learning how to make yourself feel safe—without needing someone else to fix it
Because awareness is only step one, and healing doesn’t happen from just reposting memes.
🎧 If this hits, share it, leave a review, or send it to a fellow TikTok-diagnosed bestie.
📲 Got questions or a big "OMG SAME" moment? DM me on IG @cindrabanks — I’d love to chat.
Let’s heal the love stuff, for real.