Amy came out as a lesbian in her early twenties, an identity that felt like finally stepping into the light after years of trying to be someone she wasn’t. Owning her queerness gave her a sense of wholeness and community. She fell in love with a woman for the first time and finally felt like her life aligned with her truth.

But everything shifted when her partner began transitioning to live as a man. What followed was a quiet storm of questions: Am I still a lesbian? What does this mean for how I see myself? Can I honour my partner's transition without abandoning my own identity?

In this episode, Amy reflects on the nuanced, tender, and sometimes disorienting experience of loving someone through gender transition, while trying to stay connected to her own evolving truth.

This podcast is a raw and thoughtful exploration of identity, queerness, grief, growth, and the complexity of loving in a changing world. For anyone who’s ever asked, What does this make me now? - this space is for you.