Why does saying no feel so uncomfortable, even when we know we’re already stretched too thin? In this episode of Less Hustle. More Intention. Oliver Schnusenberg unpacks the neuroscience behind boundaries and people-pleasing, showing how our brains literally treat “no” as pain.
Through relatable stories, real-world examples, and practical strategies, you’ll learn:
Why your brain struggles with saying no (and why it feels like rejection).
The hidden costs of always saying yes: burnout, resentment, and diluted impact.
Four tools for setting boundaries without guilt, including the Yes–No–Yes formula.
A simple “Boundary Audit” exercise to help you start saying no with confidence.
You’ll walk away with a new perspective: every “no” is really a “yes” to something that matters more: your energy, your authenticity, and your values.
Because your life doesn’t need more yes’s. It needs more intention.
