If you’ve ever felt like you’re the one holding the relationship together…
If you catch yourself reminding him, managing the emotions, planning all the things—and wondering why he doesn’t just lead…
This episode is your loving truth serum. 💋
Today, Melissa unpacks one of the most common patterns high-functioning women fall into in love: mothering their partner instead of inspiring his devotion. Through compassion, depth, and no fluff, she reveals how this dynamic quietly kills polarity—and how to shift out of it without shame or losing your power.
You’ll walk away with a deep understanding of:
Why strong, brilliant women unconsciously fall into “emotional parenting”
What men actually respond to (hint: it’s not micromanaging)
How to reclaim your feminine energy and restore sacred polarity
The subtle shifts that move you from over-giving… to being worshipped
This is a must-listen for the woman who’s ready to stop being the “coach” in her relationship and start becoming the Muse.
✨ What it really means to “mother” a man—and how to recognize the pattern
✨ Why your leadership might actually be pushing love away
✨ The 3 feminine shifts that activate his devotion (without manipulation)
✨ Why you’re not broken—you’re just tired from holding it all
✨ How to move from control → into radiant, irresistible magnetism
✨ A soft invitation into LOVER: Dripping In Eros
You always manage the emotional labor in your relationship
You’ve become the fixer, planner, or therapist in love
You want to surrender, but you don’t trust it’s safe
You long to feel led by a man without losing your power
You’re craving more polarity, passion, and pursuit
Inside LOVER: Dripping in Eros, Melissa guides high-achieving women back into their erotic, radiant, magnetic feminine. This is the portal for the woman who’s done doing it all—and ready to be met, held, and adored.
💌 DM Melissa “LOVER” on Instagram @iammelissapeters to learn more
If you sign up this week, this includes a private 90-min 1:1 session to anchor the work into your real relationship.
If this episode felt like a breath of fresh air, or reminded you of the woman you used to be before the pressure… share it with a sister who needs this shift.
Come hang with Melissa on Instagram @iammelissapeters for more behind-the-scenes rituals, relationship & dating content, & romantic reminders to reclaim your softness.
Until next time—
Live. Love. Lead with devotion. 🤍