Ever felt like you're begging someone to love you the right way and no matter how clearly you explain your needs, they still make you feel like you're asking for too much? Yeah... same.
In this episode, I’m getting real about what it’s like to be deeply misunderstood in a relationship. I talk about trying again with my ex (no contact), giving her all of me — no walls, no resentment, just love — and still being blamed, gaslit, and made to feel like my love language (gifts 💌) was something to be ashamed of.
We get into the psychology behind love language shame, emotional gaslighting, splitting, and that moment when I was pushed so far I autistic screamed — because the emotional overload was just too much.
If you’ve ever had to over-explain your feelings, beg someone to show up for you, or felt like your softness was always “too much” for them to handle… this episode is going to hit.
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Toxic love & relationship gaslighting
Why love languages aren’t shallow
Emotional invalidation & attachment trauma
How to stop begging and start choosing you
You weren’t too much.
You were just asking the wrong person.