Are you stuck in a loop of “why does this always happen to me?” Baby… it might be victim mentality. In this spicy and soul-shaking episode, i’m getting  real about how trauma, anxiety, and control issues keep us in a cycle of learned helplessness—and how the law of detachment can set you free. We’re talking signs you’re stuck in victim mode, how to rewire your brain, stop chasing people who don’t choose you, and finally glow the f*ck up. Plus: my personal story of how letting go led to my viral moment (yep, detachment really is that girl). It’s time to drop the pity party and reclaim your power.