Ori and Elise go over some of the nuances at play when someone calls “Yellow”. The trust it requires on both sides, reasons someone might feel discouraged from saying it, planning ahead about ways to pivot, and the skillsets around reading a yellow situation that isn’t called. Additional topics include negotiation conversations around “kink-space breakers”, the challenge around identifying “what you want”, and Elise's sadistic infatuation with pulling toes.