SPONSORS: 1) MIZZEN & MAIN: Right now, Mizzen & Main is offering our listeners 20% off your first purchase at https://mizzenandmain.com, promo code JULIAN20 PATREON https://www.patreon.com/JulianDorey (***TIMESTAMPS in description below) ~ Sarma Melngailis is an American chef, cookbook author, businesswoman and ex-convict. She was the owner and co-founder of the formerly highly-regarded Pure Food and Wine restaurant in New York City. FOLLOW JULIAN DOREY INSTAGRAM (Podcast): https://www.instagram.com/juliandoreypodcast/ INSTAGRAM (Personal): https://www.instagram.com/julianddorey/ X: https://twitter.com/julianddorey SARMA's LINKS - Substack: https://substack.com/@sarmamelngailis?r=16p9u&utm_medium=ios - IG: https://www.instagram.com/sarmamelngailis/ - X: https://x.com/sarma - WEBSITE: https://www.sarmaraw.com/writing/2022/4/5/bad-vegan-is-not-a-documentary JULIAN YT CHANNELS - SUBSCRIBE to Julian Dorey Clips YT: https://www.youtube.com/@juliandoreyclips - SUBSCRIBE to Julian Dorey Daily YT: https://www.youtube.com/@JulianDoreyDaily - SUBSCRIBE to Best of JDP: https://www.youtube.com/@bestofJDP ****TIMESTAMPS**** 00:00 - Intro 01:22 - Netflix ignoring Psychological Abuse, Nexivm, Stolen Youth, Parents' Divorce 10:50 - Sarma's Autism Diagnosis, Aspergers, Sensory Disorder, Telepathy Tapes 21:53 - Thought Reading, Autism as Superpower, LSD at 13, Blue Hair Girl 32:01 - Unsupervised Childhood, Young Girls Spectrum, Older Friends, Skaters 42:36 - Book Cut Story, Virginity taken at 14, Childhood Trauma, Psychopaths, Rescue Animals 53:06 - Manipulation, Memory Holes, Vulnerability, Kids, Love & Attachment, Sick Attachment 01:02:46 - Pure Love, Younger Guys, Jealousy, Defining Love 01:13:29 - Jealousy, Cona Atists Reformed?, Sociopaths, Victim Blaming, Awareness 01:23:50 - Hyper Awareness, Second Opinions, Judging People 01:34:26 - Love Reading, Penn, Wharton, Wall St, Culinary School, Frat House 01:45:00 - Wall St, Culinary School, Brief Marriage, Wife Role 01:56:01 - Settling vs Love, Divorce, Chaos, Fighting, Extremes 02:07:27 - Conflict Avoidance, Anxiety, Friendships, Love Languages, Fear Asking Help 02:20:33 - Burden, Affirmations, Culinary School, Food, Veganism, First Scheme CREDITS: - Host, Editor & Producer: Julian Dorey - COO, Producer & Editor: Alessi Allaman - https://www.youtube.com/@UCyLKzv5fKxGmVQg3cMJJzyQ - In-Studio Producer: Joey Deef - https://www.instagram.com/joeydeef/ Julian Dorey Podcast Episode 342 - Sarma Melngailis Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices